My friends with benefits doesn’t do fore play on me but I have to give him oral to get in the mood?

[Anonymous]

What should I do?

[CrazyRay43]

Why would you expect foreplay?
Why do you “have to” give him oral?

HE’S NOT YOUR BOYFRIEND

If he’s not giving you what you want, stop fucking him and find someone else

Friends with benefits: you fuck and that’s it... why are so many people on here talking about how they do relationship-type stuff (not specifically foreplay... but what I’ve seen on here; sending nudes, jealousy, telling the other they shouldn’t sleep with other people, etc.) with a “friend with benefits”? What part of it don’t people understand?

This is why there’s really no such thing because one or both always screw it up

[SjE78]

sounds one sided to me tbf

if he isn't willing to reciprecate then he's just selfish, and to get him in the mood?

each of my past partners and i'm certain with any future partner I have, if i'm with them I'd be in the mood 100% of the time cos i'd find them sexy regardless, so they'd only need to be near me for me to be turned on...

I would confront him about it maybe he should take the initiative

[wingattebaby16]

I have had two FWBs and tbh, neither one did foreplay.. it was all me getting them hard and enjoying the sex...

there are not supposed to be any "feels" going on here...

Tell him you want foreplay to "get you ready", just like he needs... only fair.

[Red_Arrow]

Backwards. Gals need foreplay to get going. As much as I would enjoy everything you would do to me, just seeing you naked in front of me would have me erect and ready! But I always “get her ready” and love using my mouth all over her! Once she has cum at least once, then I am ready to go for my pleasure while still pleasing her. If a guy does not do foreplay on her, it is a very one sided relationship. If you are going to have a friends with benefits, make it one who enjoys foreplay on you!

[wingattebaby16]

@Red_Arrow 100% correct!!

[likelyOK]

You being cheated he sounds horrible get rid of him and find someone better

[Shivvy123]

Then he's not a friend with benefits!

[CrazyRay43]

It seems to be that there are many people out there who don’t understand what it means

[Shivvy123]

@CrazyRay43 sad really. Must be their age 😬

[CrazyRay43]

If I was having sex with someone for fun and they started making demands of me, then it’s no longer fun, and they’re gone

[AustinMan]

Think about finding foreplay things that'll really be fun for both of that he'll get to see your positive response.

[Red_Dragon]

Tell him you want foreplay. Me personally I love to kiss. I get all into it. Touching and stuff.

[ItsTheNephilim]

Talk to him about it.

[LiamSawyer]

Dump him... he should be giving you excellent oral causing two or three orgasms before entering you!

[igetbi]

I agree. If he won't, you should find someone that will.

[Dargil]

Whey does he say he doesn't do foreplay?

[0112358]

Of that’s not what you’re into, decide if he’s so hot he’s worth it.
if not move on. There are millions of potential friends with benefits who would be happy to have whatever foreplay you want

[scuff1986]

Should always try and be fair, but not unheard of

[JosyJosy]

You stand your ground and demand foreplay if that's what you want/need

[MannMitAntworten]

Remind him that this is an arrangement of connivence and that he is replaceable with a man who will. So get licking...

[Idontevenunderstandh]

Strike a bargin

[COMMODOREII]

Demand foreplay.

[Numbnuts89]

You are 24

Grow up

STOP HAVING A FUCK BUDDY!

[Hardpunk69]

yeah oral important

[Anonymous]

Find a new one