My friends with benefits is trying to set me up with his best friend?

My friends with benefits and i have been sleeping with each other since July.
Today he FaceTimed me out of the blue.

He sounded drunk. And he started off by asking what was i doing and who was over my house.

Then he told me he missed me … which was weird to me

He then told me that he sometimes finishes in me and that he knows he needs to stop but he can’t help self

Then he told me he had a guy who he wanted to hook me up with. He sent me a picture of him and told me “he’s loyal and handsome”

That’s when he FaceTimed the guy he sent me a picture of (while i was still on and we were in 3 way call)


He starts by saying i want to introduce y’all to each other he then starts describing me “she’s beautiful, she has her own place and car, she’s nice, she works hard.. she just needs someone to spoil her. I’m trying to hook her up with someone good because i love her”


TL:DR; what was the purpose of him trying to hook me up with someone else a random at that to me
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Superb Opinion
  • He see's himself as a loser and wants to set you up with someone better in case he gets your pregnant, thinks he loves you but there is no future with him.

    That is Fing weird though what he did, probably time to cut that friends with benefits off and move on.

    • You think he sees himself as a loser

    • Yup, if he didn't he wouldn't be trying to set you up with someone else. If he thought he was good enough for you, he wouldn't do that... the other option is he wants to cut things off with you and is trying to setup a new person to take his place.

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  • Simple, he was horny and was turned on by the idea of having a 3 some with you and his friend.

    When you understand how simple minded guys are and that when they are horny their brains transfer to their testicles, these things are easy to figure out... lol

Most Helpful Guys

  • Sounds like he's pimping you out. He was probably just drunk, why don't you ask him what it was all about when he's sober, hopefully he'll remember lol

  • I wouldn’t take any of this seriously since he was drunk.
    id ask him what all of the harassment was all about when he’s sober.

    • His friend messaged me

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Threesome. Cause he clearly does not have plans to stop giving you D. Sounds like their in cahoots.

  • Guess he thought you wanted to be hooked up with his whole cadre of friends so that you can remain active 7 days a week. Just think of the body count you would have bragging rights to.

  • Sounds like a lot of alcohol talking!

    • What do you mean by that

  • So I think he likes you BUT he's not going to commit to you. Why dont you move on love... I once asked my friends with benefits to hook me up with his friend and he got offended😂😂

  • if you like him enough go for it

  • he had his piece now he wants to pass you off too his friend.#RealClassy

    do yourself a favour and ditch this guy

  • Friends with benefits is such a classy deal, isn't it?
    I felt like taking a shower after just reading this.

  • If he was drunk then who knows what was running through his head. How has your sex life with him been? Do you want sex with his friend... that is the real question?

  • Alcohol can often bring clarity. Your life. Still your choices.

  • Some guys are super into watching and that's totally fine in my opinion

  • He knows you aren't interested in him romantically. His drunk self is taunting you.

  • Well is the best friend going to my profile picture and name explains that if so everybody needs to produce paperwork and hopefully you're on some good birth control

  • He wants to see you getting banged by his friend or join another girl with you and him?

  • I have done this for my ex. Set her up with a friend

    • He’s not an ex we just had sex last week

  • He wants a threesome with both of you.

  • Yea don't do it

  • He doesn't want a relationship, so he's trying to do you a favor and refer you to someone who does.

    Either that or his buddy just needed to get laid and he owed him a favor.

  • "she’s beautiful, she has her own place and car, she’s nice, she works hard.. she just needs someone to spoil her. I’m trying to hook her up with someone good because i love her”

    And you still don't know?

    • We still sleep together though so this is weird

    • It's pretty obvious he has self-confidence issues and you should go up to him and reassure him that he's good enough.

  • So essentially you're into being pimped out as friend with benefits for another friend LMAO! If I was his supposed friend I wouldn't touch you with a 10 foot Pole. LMFAO

  • this sounds weird... I would give this guy space for sure after that performance

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