My friends with benefits want to do anal?

[Ms_December]

So I'm against anal sex.. And this guy wants it BAD! I told him I don't like that.. But he doesn't see why. I need something to say to keep him at bay. Other then just "no" thanks!

[MrOracle]

Simple: quit asking, or go away forever.

While I think that most girls would actually enjoy it with the right partner, I am strongly in favor of people being able to choose what they like, and not be forced into doing what they don't like, in bed or otherwise. So, if that is your preference, either he respects that, or he hits the road.

[Lupianwolf]

It's more likely to spread infection through anal than vaginal as the anal cavity is more prone to tearing which can lead tofluids mixing with blood, I'm guessing you both use protection and/or are clean anyway

Can be really painful for you

Say you won't suck it after

[enlightenment]

tell him if you can do it to him then he can do it to you...ha!

[Thiezz]

What if he calls your bluff and says 'deal'?

[enlightenment]

buy a dildo

[Thiezz]

So let's assume for the sake of argument he's okay with his FWB putting a dildo in his ass. Now QA should reciprocate according to the agreement she made because of your recommendation, putting her in a worse situation than before (because now she's not just saying "no", she has to come back on an agreement, thus ruining trust between her and the guy). Explain how your answer was helpful.

[enlightenment]

loosen up...you obviously missed the "ha!" at the end of my answer

[l-hedoniste]

"It's over."

He wants anal sex bad. You're not going to do it. You guys need to split, before you wind up splitting angrily.

[Shaun]

Don't you have any friends who like anal? Maybe you can set them up?

[bel42]

well stop being his fwb.