My fuck buddy doesn’t want to have sex anymore?

Long story short my friends with benefits buddy doesn’t not want to have sex anymore. We’ve been having sex for 3 years. But recently he has mentioned that he doesn’t want to have sex anymore. He just wants to be friends. Why is that?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • First of all 3 years is a boyfriend not a hookup and i dont wanna hurt your feelings bit he's got someone else you are 22 and hot as fuck he's bored stupid or both bit at that age he just either doesn't want to be tied down or he may want more from you and is afraid to to tell you since y'all have the fuck buddy deal those are the reasons if you want him and this bothers you as much as it sounds maybe you're in LOVE with him too. How bout you pose these questions to him and if he blows u off then fuck it believe me if REALLY doesn't want you or even just fuck you believe me you will have NO TROUBLE finding someone to fuck with out strings. Just be sure to set the rules and maybe even a time limit like 6 months or a year and then move on to a new one. hope I've helped you
    If you have questions just message me private and I'll tell you whatever I can ok good luck sweetheart

  • May be u are a bore now.
    And he has lost interest in u...
    Else he wants to get into a serious relationship which he thinks u are not right person.
    Or may be interested in a new girl.
    Just my opinions as from people around me, u shld ask him when he's drunk or in a calm moment...

Most Helpful Girls

  • Not trying to be mean but why would you have sex with a "FWB" for 3 years! Obviously it's going nowhere and he never wanted a true relationship with you? To me that's idiotic! Goes to show that you haven't caught on to his intentions and he obviously has been using you, you should have more respect for yourself because he apparently and obviously doesn't respect/care about you. Do you not feel used? .. Especially after 3 years

    • I think this comment is a bit insane what someone choose to do cause they want to is up to them

    • @TheOmega What she couldnt see in 3 years this girl see in just 5 seconds.

    • @TheOmega of course it's up to her but I don't think she would ask a question if she didn't need advice or an opinion which I gave

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  • and u care? he is just for sex u shouldn't have headache for him. or? thats how friends with benefits end that somebody falls in love and left brokenhearted... no good idea for women

  • Probably because it doesn't suit his life style anymore, he's looking for something deeper and something else.

  • Maybe he is bored with you now... And wants a break..

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  • Ask him, he is the one who made the decision.

  • His loss. If you want to find out why just ask him to communicate with you sincerely. Stop beating behind the bush.

  • i think he probably wants a realtionship

  • He's Probably Gotta girlfriend

  • You'd have to ask him this. We can't read his mind lol. I'm impressed it's lasted 3 yrs!! Maybe he's found a serious girlfriend or dating someone?

  • bope ask him lol

  • Maybe your eyes drifted elsewhere

  • Probably found someone he wants to be with for more than sex

  • He probably met a woman, he wants a relationship with.

  • He could be feeling like he's becoming attached to you in a "more than fwb" way

  • Reasons may vary;
    1.) He found a girlfriend and wants to be loyal.
    2.) He's just bored with you.
    3.) Many other reasons.

  • He maybe does not like you anymore

  • Either he wants to get serious or he's tired of having sex with one girl.

  • I don't know maybe you should look for a boyfriend not just a fuck buddy, you werent a relationship so he doesn't really owe you an explanation

  • Maybe he is not liking to have sex with the same person over and over again. Or maybe he has been feeling guilty that he is using you for sex...

  • He's interested in forming a relationship with someone else that's beyond friends with benefits.

    • @jesika8 you are absolutely gorgeous i don't think you'll have trouble finding someone else.

  • sounds like he lost interest in you

  • Found someone else, it happens , when you just want sex it leaves , suggest a relationship with someone that wants to be in your life

  • May be now he like some one else.

  • Maybe he feels it's run its course and wants to get into something more serious
    3 years is a long time to just mess about

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