My fuckbuddy dumped me and it hurts. Am I just obssessed?

My hot fuckbuddy just dumped me because he has found someone new, well great. Guys I know this is stupid but I feel so shitty, unwanted, ugly, not horny enough, I don't know... I was so passionate about him, that was so hot and fun. I feel like I'm never gonna find a sex partner like him again. I think about it nearly all day. Am I obssessed? How am I gonna be okay with that? Please help me guys it feels weirdly so bad, I know it's just sex but I'm hurt...
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Being obsessed might have been the deal breaker.
    FWB/fuckbuddy should only about getting fucked, no feelings involved.
    You might have been getting too possessive about him, and scared him off.
    Yes, getting rejected sucks, but it sounds like you crossed the line, and let feelings interfere with a good lay.

    If you found one guy, then certainly other guys would want you too.
    You should be looking for a relationship, instead of random cock.
    It is much more rewarding.

  • Well, you did say you were passionate about him

    So you might as well have been in love, since you invested all that time and energy into him.

    You'll get over it, it'll just take a while. Probably the same amount of time it takes you to get over a break up

Most Helpful Girls

  • I think the feelings are natural considering that it's all so fresh and it you use the term "dumped" as though in a deeper relationship. Whatever type of relationship you had it doesn't diminish the feelings that accrue over time and it's hard not to think about somebody you shared something great with. The obsession will fade over time though. Gotta busy that mind with other things which is easier said than done but at least it can be done.

  • you were only fuck buddies you are taking it to personal. if you don't want that to happen and to get attached to a fuck buddy then simple, don't do it. move on

  • are you sure he was just a fuck buddy? sounds like you have developed some deeper feelings for him...

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  • You got over invested. Either don't do that again or give up fuck buddies.

  • Oh get over it you big baby.

    "Waaah, I don't get to have no strings attached cock in me whenever I want, woe is me ;_;"

    I don't normally get pissed off reading questions on this site, but you fucking FwBfags are just the most annoying slimeballs.

  • i guess you should just move on... sorry!

  • friends with benefits always messes up...

  • It just happened right? Give it some time. You'll find someone new that you'll like just as much.

  • You'll find another fuckbuddy someday =(

  • Ill take his place x