My girlfriend participated in a orgy before I got with her?

My girlfriend and i are together for 1 year and 7 months and last week i found sth out i could have never imagined.
My girlfriend was a virgin when she came into college, then she had a ons and another one and then a friends with benefits. I knew this and i was okay with it cause most girls have similar past, well maybe they had their first time with a boyfriend but ok.
But now i heard from my girlfriend that she had a orgy. We talked about such stuff andcame to the topic orgy, because a friend of her is interested in it cause she and her boyfriend are swingers.
Then in the discussion my girlfriend started to brag about her experiences. She told me that not long after her first time she was invited by her friend to a frat party. There it happened. My girlfriend had sex with 3 guys she didn't know or even talked with.
She seems to like this experience.

I feel insecure, grossed out, turned off, dissapointed..

I dont know what to do?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Honestly it happened before you met her so I don’t see why it’s an issue with you. And if you don’t like the idea of an orgy in the future you should talk to her about it. Or the best thing to do would be to move on because stopping someone from what they desire is something you shouldn’t do in a relationship. Good luck 🙂

    • I already dumped her. doesn't matter if it was in the past, doesn't matter if it was before knowing me, it doesn't matter. It only matters that it happened and why should i date her? Such girls are used for sex only, ghey shouldn't be in a relationship.

    • Oh I see. You’re more of the controlling type. Anyway, your life. Good for you

    • probably not a girl for you. she sounds fun you sound pathetically boring an opinionated.

  • Grow up. Big deal she had sex. I am sure you are not a virgin.

Most Helpful Guys

  • if its an issue for you that she's been in that a situation, you should talk to her about it, if you can't get over the fact your girl was with 3 dudes at once, there is only one option,

  • What? Why? Who cares if she had a 3some or whatever before she knew you

    • Not just a threesome, a fucking orgy!

    • orgies are fun.

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  • More girls have done this than you think! Also, a lot of girls want to do 3 or 4 guys at the same time and would if no one knew. Why is it ok for a guy but a girl isn't supposed to do it? She sounds like a fun girl!

  • If you're not okay being with someone who does stuff like that then you should dump her

  • this can be intimating for men who are not experienced with women or men who usually have sex in a relationships. I was thinking maybe she was too open minded for you. however she sounds like a lot of fun and maybe even a fun fvck.

  • You sound insecure.

  • You can't undo this, so what is there left to do? You should forget this bit of history and jus enjoy her now.