My girlfriend bleeds every time we have sex - WTF?

[d3f3cted]

she is not a virgin and its not that time of the month so why does my girlfriend bleed every time we have sex and its turning me off and making me go soft and not want to have sex with her anymore because i hate the look of blood and it makes me sick and feel like im hurting her. and i dont know what to do or say, i have told her she should go see a doctor but she doesn't seem like she is going to and she said this has never happened with anyone else before in the past. so i dont know whats going on. and i have never had this problem with any other girls unless its that time of the month or the first time with me then after that its fine.

[KelaAshes]

This happened to me. It turned out that I had a really low level yeast infection for like ten years. It started to get really bad until everything was painful. Then I couldn't have sex for like four months until everything healed.

Trust me. Doctor. Now.

[d3f3cted]

that would have sucked for your boyfriend at the time, and yeah im trying to get her to go doctors she most likely will but you recon check for yeast infection hey?

[KelaAshes]

There are a number of things that can cause bleeding. If it is a yeast infection and if is bad enough to cause her to bleed, over the counter medications are not at all what she needs. I tried that first what what I got was an experience just as painful as breaking a bone, which I've done before. Those creams are for mild infections, not something this bad.

[snuggle_bunny88]

Yeah, that's not normal. She needs to go see a doctor asap. I'd be freaking out, if that was me.

[snuggle_bunny88]

Thanks for MHO!

[d3f3cted]

how can i get her to go to the doctor, like if i was your boyfriend and i was asking you for example. what should i do or say to not upset or offend her or whatever

[snuggle_bunny88]

Tell her that you're really worried about her, that it would make you feel better if she went to see a doctor about it.

[Findingmyway]

Tell her she needs to see a doctor and not have sex until she does since she isn't listening.

[d3f3cted]

i haven't been having sex with her and i think she is starting to get the point

[Findingmyway]

Good.. She needs to take her own health seriously..

[devin12210]

Either it's that time of the month, your hurting her, or there is something wrong with her vag bro. She either needs to get it checked out or be honest with you if your hurting her.

[d3f3cted]

i know she is enjoying it and im not hurting her because she wants me to keep making love to her but the problem is i go soft because i see blood and my brain is like your hurting her or i just dont like blood and its a turn off i dont know. its even worse when i go down on her to find out half way through she bleeds and i have to wash and spit blood out my mouth. so you can see why im turned off and dont wanna do it right

[Anonymous]

maybe you are too big and are pounding the back which hurts a ton and she might just not be saying that you are. try and not go as far next time and see if anything happens

[d3f3cted]

Ok ill give that a go and update my status on here next time

[Katy16]

Have you tried using more lube?

[d3f3cted]

with or without lube still bleeds. and its gotten to a point now where im actually turned off sex and before i was really turned on by her now i just don't have any interest at all

[Katy16]

I think she needs to get checked out cause unless you are huge that shouldn't happen

[d3f3cted]

well i kind of am but that has never happened before

[Anonymous]

She's bleeding on purpose to show submission to you.

[d3f3cted]

you can't just bleed on purpose.

[Opinion Owner]

She's a woman. Anything is possible.

[ButtHoleSandwich]

This answer made me Lol

[d3f3cted]

lol hahaha very true

[Anonymous]

She should definitely see a doctor.

[d3f3cted]

i keep telling her this