My girlfriend couldn't make me cum?

[Anonymous]

The other day my girlfriend gave me a handjob and blowjob and switched between both for at least 10 strait minutes but she got tired with both arms and had to stop. She couldn't get me to come and got a little upset. I don't know what the problem is, I can make myself come fast when masturbating. Maybe it could have been that I wasn't really in a sexual mood at the time, but she still made me hard. She did stop a few times and just play with it because it was her first one. She's given me many handjobs before and have never made me come even though they did feel good. She wants to taste my come because she never has before, so she's been getting frustrated. Anyways I just wanted to put this up to see what other people had to say and maybe give me advice. Like how my girlfriend could make me come faster or do something that will give me more pleasure.

[jennifer_maew]

Don't hate me for saying this...just completely curious as to why you can't come when she does this...but...is there ANY possibility you could be...gay? If no, then you should see a doctor, there could be something wrong with your goods, and the sooner you get it checked out, the better. Whichever it may be, I hope you find the cause and the cure :) Good luck.

[Asker]

Ok, no I'm not gay. I'm actually kinda on the perverted side... so I love women. I still think I just wasn't in the mood enough though. I was kinda getting blue balls when she did it anyways

[Anonymous]

this same exist thing happen to my boyfriend and I and I worked it really hard and got pretty upset when he didt com and he told me it was because he had not worked it in a while but I'm still pretty confused myself and it got her upset because she probably thought she was doing something wrong and was not good or something that's what I thought!

[BigBen97]

What can you say to your girlfriend if this happens, to comfort her, so she knows that it wasn't her fault?

[l-hedoniste]

Put on a big, big smile, thank her, and give her a dozen orgasms of gratitude. Because there aren't too many girls who'll wear out both arms trying to get you off.

Oh, and don't worry about coming. It comes and goes, and the less you worry, the better.

[PanamaFlyBoy]

man your not the only one this happened to me a coupe times did you jack off earlier that day? could have been that or you ju take xtra for a girl to make you come ( high class penis lol)

P.S. No Homo

[debsman]

If this happens again, and she gets tired, use your own hand and take over. Let her massage your balls while you do this and just let her know when you are gonna cum. This will make it a joint effort, so to speak.

[rowie94]

this exact situation just happened to me, not 30 minutes ago. she's really upset, and thinks it's her fault. I don't understand it. it was the most amazing feeling of my life. its both her and my first time, and she is really really upset over it. what do I do?

[semperfi07]

why not try shoving it inside the punani its better

[Anonymous]

Man this happened to me tonight and she's crying and wants some alone time... I feel as if I messed up big time... Tottaly destroys my confidence for the next time..