My girlfriend didn’t get me anything for Christmas but said sex was my gift. Is that a real Christmas present?

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shanshu · Accepted Answer

No, she's just a lazy arse or cheapstake. Doesn't matter if she has sex with you rarely or a lot. The fact is she couldn't be bothered to get you a gift because like penny from big bang theory she feels she is your gift.

A present doesn't have to be something you have to buy but something that someone has put some thought into getting or made or knows what that person wants.

The only way sex is a present/gift for Christmas or bday or specially occasion is if it's something you want to do sexually but she doesn't want to do it but she did it as a special treat for that day like anal or public sex or dom/sub typed of thing or some other kinky thing.

Pegases · Accepted Answer

Absolutely not. In fact, is actually quiet disrespecul that she deosnt value you enough to get you an actual gift. She deosnt respect you. If she did, she'd find a way to show you that she cares about you. Women that think the same sex they give you all throughout the year is a gift, deserve the same sex for Christmas. Seems that's the only way women like that are ever able to comprehend why it isn't acceptable. Find a new girlfriend, she ain't the one.

Adaeva · Accepted Answer

If you call it a gift, it's a gift. For her Christmas present give her a penny and say, "This is your Christmas gift." However, if her gift is worth enough, give her something of equal value.

TacosRAwesome · Accepted Answer

Depends on whether it was regular sex or spicy sex

CrAZe977 · Answer

Hardly. My ex tried to pull this on my birthday a few years ago. I told him I wouldn't accept a present that wasn't wrapped and used it as an excuse to tie him up and then I just left him alone for a few hours and made my own fun instead.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

It depends, if you do it all the time anyways, then no it is not a gift... but if you never have, and this was your first time with her, seems like a great gift then.

TheorionMage · Answer

It COULD be. But...  "if so"...  you should STILL be smiling... with a shit-eating grin! And EPIC memories that'll last you a lifetime~ AS A GIFT... its ALL about YOU, ... not HER 'wants'.

Anemone978 · Answer

Sex is the easiest thing she can give you and if you already did it with her it isn't even a gift anymore lol

Sour-rose · Answer

Depends, do you want the gift of what she got or not?

SnowedIn · Answer

The gift is what she says it is. Up to you to be grateful or not. You're the only guy I know who's looking for something more than sex, though.

Summeroflove · Answer

Seems the relationship is purely sexual. If she expected something from you but gave you nothing it’s one sided.  I think she’s using you for sex honestly speaking.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Nope. Your girlfriend overvalues her sex and undervalues you. Don’t take it personally. She almost certainly has never valued or respected a man in her entire life.

fantasticass · Answer

No... you need to leave her. She doesn't deserve you. Go find a lady who will appreciate your kindness 🙏

AviatorTom · Answer

Be thankful for what she gave you. Some of us got a pair of slippers and a book. 😏

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

If you're happy with it sure. If you were expecting a physical gift then say so

exitseven · Answer

I say it is a gift but if you do it all the time anyway I don't see the value in it.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Nah, that's not a real gift lol  Sex is something women give as a way to be cheap with their man

Shedzij567 · Answer

Sex is not a gift, both enjoy unless you bad at it

ThatguyDon · Answer

it's a present if you didn't have to pay for it. ;)

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

That's isn't a Christmas gift if she was my girlfriend I would be rethinking the relationship especially if I went out of my way to give her an actual present. So no man you shouldn't accept having sex as a present!