My girlfriend has a foot fetish and I dont. What do I do?

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My girlfriend has a foot fetish and I dont. What do I do?

oot fetish, like I am always catching her watching foot fetish p*rn and she is always asking me to smell or suck her toes and I'm just not into that kind of thing, you know? And don't get me wrong, she has hella cute feet, but I just think they're nicely shaped. That's all. However she gets sad whenever I say no, so I need your guys' advice. What do I do. For all of the foot fetishes out there, there you go. 🙄 (Disclaimer for the picture with the white painted toenails: She woke me up in the middle of the night and asked me to take a photo of them because and I quote "they looked good" so yeah the flash screwed the picture up, but she saysbher feet look sexy in that picture so

My girlfriend has a foot fetish and I dont. What do I do?

I don't know man I need your guys' help please because I really like her, I really do.. I just... I'm not into that type of stuff. Am I a bad boyfriend for not satisfying her foot fetish requests?

My girlfriend has a foot fetish and I dont. What do I do?
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  • Foot fetishists are an avid bunch. Their feelings are not going to go away. I disagree with some users here who said you might as well move on, end the relationship. Relationships are about more than just physical-sexual compatibility. If your personalities, characters, and sensibilities are complementary, then try to work with her on this.

    The first thing I'll say is that your partner being very turned on is a nice thing to see, right? And if she's turned on, she will be more amenable to saying yes to whatever things you're into.

    What you can and should avoid is you being grossed out in any way, or feeling like you're being used or not respected. But barring those, it's just a matter of seeing if you can find some compromise, and some way to enjoy it with her.

    I would suggest the following:

    • Ask her to wash her feet so that she's perfectly clean, and there won't be any issues with smell or dirt. Those can be immediate turn-offs.
    • She looks like she's very motivated to take care of her feet (waking you up in the middle of the night to take a photograph of her freshly painted nails? Wow, lol), but tell her what pedicures you like most (colours and whatnot) and she will definitely want to please you or do anything to encourage you.
    • Try edibles. (I'm speaking of food products, but cannabis edibles in the sativa variety would also increase appetite and sex drive.) Try whipped cream, Nutella, and anything else you like, and put them on her soles and toes. Focus on that taste, and try to forget what's under them. ?
    • This is a quid pro quo situation, so once you've lavished her, ask her for something in return. You might even hypnotize her, turn her into your little puppet, lol. (Does Dom/sub dynamic appeal to either or both of you?)
    • Or do 69, but she's sucking you off, and you're sucking her feet. That way you'll focus on what you're feeling and get out of your mind a bit. Being totally conscious and hyperaware during sex is not that great. Try to lose yourself in it.
    • With her, it's sort of like you already have the handbook or combination - you know how to turn her on, and that's a major plus, because for a lot of guys with young females, the females don't know their bodies and sexuality that well, and the guy is sort of grasping for straws, trying to figure out how to unlock her.
    • Also, maybe if you focus on her face, not her feet, while you're giving her attention, it'll help you. Don't think about the act, so much as the effect.

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  • Be a sport, give them some love.
    I'm thinking her sucking you off may not be her favorite things to do but there she is in her mouth like it was a popsicle with a cream filled center.
    Possibly one thing to think of is that someone with a foot fetish will comment on her feet which are gorgeous and will end up with one of the in his mouth trying to swallow it.
    I know I would.
    I have been with a few women that have almost been orgasmic having their toes sucked and feet played with.
    You just might find that she will get so turned on buy her feet being played with that she will end up riding you like a rented mule.
    Sex is a 2 way street.
    If you truly care about your partner then do something that she likes.
    I know I could have hours of fun with them.

    • I mean ig i could try some stuff out.. her feet ARE gorgeous, as you could see from the question, I do like the idea of her riding me like a rented mule though ngl 😏

    • You might find that the more you play with them the more you will cum to like her reaction to the attention she is getting. Asked her for a foot job, lots of lube and it ranks right up there with a handjob. Since they are all oiled up it is a good time to tickle them. If she is ticklish it isn't hard,(yes it will be hard) to tickle her into submission and she might let you do what ever you want to her in order to get her to stop. Start out slow and work you way into it. It will open up a whole other area for sex. If she isn't in the mood but you are start rubbing her feet and run your tongue between her toes and enter the rented mule.

    • Okay well she's coming over in two days i can try and give them some attention

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  • No, it doesn't make you a bad boyfriend. You're just not into that type of thing and she should understand that. Everyone has their kinks and fetishes, and not everyone can be into the same thing.

    Sometimes it can be hard to turn someone away because of their politeness, and it can get confusing. I'm sure a lot of guys would jump on that because a lot of people have foot fetishes, but that doesn't mean you have to. You're just not into that type of thing.

    Just tell her you're not into feet. If she doesn't understand, you could always tell her you have pedophobia, which is a fear of feet, and it is a real thing. It might be a dirty trick lying like that, but it might get her off your back.

    • Thank you this has really helped! I appreciate it

    • you're welcome. Glad that it helped :)

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  • haha had the same problem myself a few years ago. i just got on and done what she asked for. after doing it i got good sex, but also she joined in with stuff that i liked and wanted was a win win.

  • That is just weird! Not so much her wanting you to "worship" them, girls have teased me with their feet (when clean) and asked me to kiss them or nibble them... but asking you to smell them? I can't imagine any girl asking a guy to smell her feet.

    • Yeah.. apparently this is a first ig

    • I wouldn't say it's the first for a girl to be into her feet being pampered, like I said, in the past I've had a couple girls like that but they never asked me to smell them.

    • Ah ok. I'm hoping some girls respond bc i wanna see what they say.

  • Wow I must admit this the first I've heard of a female having a foot fetish.

    If you can't find a compromise you may want to leave her, as I doubt that this is the only thing you disagree on.

    See her opinions on kids, in-laws, money and sex

    • I really don't want to leave her because everything else is perfect we both love each other sex has been great 😏 we both want the same things in life it's just her foot fetish is getting a little overwhelming

    • Well you have to adapt to her desires because they aren't going anywhere and the last thing you want is to be in a relationship where that stuff is suppressed - BELIEVE YOU ME

  • I cannot even imagine what foot fetish porn would be like.

  • First off you are not a bad boyfriend if you don’t have a foot fetish like she does it’s just a fetish. Maybe compromise with her if you no problem maybe does massage them for her with your hands during foreplay and she might just be happy with that maybe use some baby oil while you massage them. You could also maybe do a trade off like you can do some foot stuff with her but she has to do one of your fetish’s also.

    • I can definitely do foot messages because like I said she has nice feet, but like living out sucking her toes is just where I draw the line

  • just let her be she is your girlfriend and maybe let her panit your toes too!

  • Nothing wrong with that.

  • so watch your own shit

    • Clearly you misunderstood the question but thanks anyways!

  • Just let her do what she needs to do.
    Just. Let. Her. Do. It.

    • Let her do what?

    • Whatever she wants with your feet.

  • She has to learn not everything about her there give and take in a relationship

    • Is there anything else I can do?

    • Make her suck your feet

    • But I'm not into that stuff

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  • You are so me luck guy

  • Girls don't have foot fetishes, this is all about you. And why would you need to post those pictures?

    • What do you mean it's all about me? And I don't know as soon as I posted the question, i wanted to delete them How do i edit it?