My girlfriend has small boobs and doesn't believe me when I tell her they are beautiful. What can I do to make her less self conscious?

I tried putting in in many different ways, I keep telling her that they are big enough and very beautiful and that she is very sexy, however no matter what I say, she believes that I am joking to make her feel better, when in reality I actually prefer small boobs like hers. She buys push up bras and refuses to go braless even when her nipples wouldn't be seen, just because she says that her boobs don't look good without a bra giving them shape.

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  • I prefer small breasts as they are firmer and have better shape in my view. Plus nipples are more important to me. I like to be able to cup my girls breasts and more than a handful is too big to me.

    Small boobs concerns is a repetitive theme here. A girl said to me "I've a right to be dissatisfied with my body" and another said "If I worry about it, then I don't have to worry about you worrying about it", in response to me assuring them they were fine (and they were both very fine).

    I'm recounting this because I don't think you are going to argue her into accepting her stack is great and you may not be her source of concern. It quite possibly other women. Women are brutal to each other and some other woman is bound to have called her flat chested in the past.

    I think you will do better demonstrating you get off on her small boobies. A no bras at home anymore rule. I particularly like cut off T's draping over small breasts. My hands could sneak up there at any moment :) I like deeply plunging necklines exposing small boobs. Love lycra bands over small boobs as the nipples are highlighted.

    Oh yeah small firm breasts being brushed against my cock during sex.

    I think you'll do better making her dress for you so you can enjoy her boobies all the better. Buy her some tops you'll like her in!

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  • Unfortunately it's a dilemma outside your control.
    As someone who's attracted to slim figures I often end up dating a woman with a very nice body but fairly small boobs. And no matter hoe much I show her I love them she still wouldn't belive me.

    It's like men and penis size really.
    If a woman tells you you are average or "the perfect size" you will be offended and wish you where "big" no matter how hard she tries she won't change your mind because it's a self image problem that only you can deal with.

    This is the same with her. Only she can learn to love her small boobs (which is harder considering how accessible breast enlargement is)

    My advice is maintain that you do love them as they are and let her come to terms with them on her own

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  • So can relate I'm never happy with myself

    It's such brain washing that we accept! She has to over come it and you can't help her!

    My hubby tells me all the time I look beautiful... Never believe him

    But It gets accepted more by a stranger or another woman saying she loves my outfit I look pretty.

    We are weird maybe have someone you know and trust compliment her chest from time to time.

    It's making her happy with her own body which she has decided she hates. Only she can change it.

    Your trying makes it worse!

    • Small boobs are more attractive than large boobs. Don't ashamed to display them.

    • I prefer small boobs, many guys do!

    • @stratford won't ever show them but now I'm happy with my small boobs especially after feeding my kids with them

  • take off her top when you there Give them attention like licking her nips.. Make her go out braless. Lastly when you guys are busy pull out and cum on them.

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  • Which needs to improve her self image and self-esteem, there is nothing you can do or day that improve her own thoughts about her body.

    The other problem is society has drummed into everyone, that everything has to big, big cock, big boobs, and that makes most worried about their body parts not been good enough for the opposite sex. So its understandable she feels this way.

  • Just be patient and persistent. Rather act than speak about it.

  • Don’t try too hard to convince her. Just let her grow into her own skin and be complimentary when they come up.

  • Affirm her viewpoint, negate big B, and then give her support in a funny way.

    "yea maybe. Big boobs are really a lot of trouble, makes your back hurt, they sag more, and can give you a black eye... don't want that do ya? They are double trouble. I'm happy with the boobs I have... they are mine."

    etc...

  • Unfortunately there is nothing you can do other than just be there for you. You can't help people that refuse to help themselves. You'll burn yourself out trying to give her confidence and worth that she can only give herself.

    Learn her love language and just be there for you

  • Not your job to fix her. Drop her and get somebody less insecure. That shite gets old fast.

  • it’s up to her to feel good about it

  • Focus on her breasts and nipples throughout intimacy. Kiss them Good Morning (and her puzzy). Cup them when he is at the sink. Hold on to one when scratching her back.

    Also, steal peeks like you are out in public and don't know her. Exaggeratedly look down her blouse randomly. She wants to know that they matter. Actions, not words. Verbal compliments can sound artificial. Just love on and notice them at every appropriate opportunity.

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  • Stop talking about her boobs. Drawing attention to them keeps reinforcing her insecurity about them. When you make out with her, caress her breasts and kiss them, along with whatever else you two are doing. Your actions will speak much better than words ever could.

  • Don’t focus on size to convince her. I myself live smaller breast because the nipple is usually more sensitive and just not a fan of big tits never have been they don’t impress me at all. But anyways give them attention without overdoing it and let her know why you like them other than size. She’s already convinced they are too small for societies acceptable size and might be considering implants.

  • This mind sound a bit gross, but tell her you have a big of a kink for small boobs and would love it if she would let you cum on them, even jerk off over them.

  • You have already accepted her, there's not much more you can do. If she says she wants to get fake boobs, tell her you will dump her if she gets them. Maybe she will get a clue after that.

  • Sounds like you have done all you can, so don't mention her boobs anymore, but do keep giving her compliments.

  • Maybe if you play or suck on them more, but her sexy bras her, or do boob worship during sex.

  • You can't. It is a self image issue.

  • I love small boobs always have always will

  • sex. She just wants you to want her, physically. Sex will help that

  • Buy her bigger ones

  • Be consistent

  • Small boobs are more better than saggy and big boobs, I like small but perky boobs instead..

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