My girlfriend hates my big dick and she says it's too big and it's so painful when I penetrate. What should I do now?

1. What should I do in this case?
2. She says it's too painful when I enter?
I'm confused what to do now this is something crazy. We are in a relationship for more than 7 months and now she says this what can I do?
My girlfriend hates my big dick and she says its too big and its so painful when I penetrate. What should I do now?
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  • I think it's a girth problem. I can address that, my penis has a huge girth.

    She will need long and through foreplay with oral. 30 to 45 minutes is common. Communicate with her. Ask her if she enjoys what you are doing or prefers something different. When her vagina muscles have relaxed a bit and you can insert your finger in her vagina, finger her g-spot.

    Continue foreplay while gently stretching her vagina with your fingers. An orgasm followed by more foreplay is usually beneficial. See how many fingers you can insert after more foreplay. Eventually, the number of fingers should be about the thickness of your dick. (I use dildos at times.) When her vagina muscles are relaxed sufficiently, use lube for penetration. Use lots of lube, lube is your friend.

    I suggest starting penetration with the cowgirl or reverse missionary position so she is in control of penetration. Don't rush her. Let her go as slow as she wants to. Even though her vagina muscles are relaxed she will still need to adjust to the thickness of your penis. She may need to do some in and out before taking it deeper. This can take 5 minutes, possibly more.

    She will tell you if it's okay or if she needs more foreplay.

    You may need to use additional lube after she has taken all your penis once you're thrusting.

    • Yeah it's probably a girth problem. But people here are making fun of this issue. I don't understand what they are thinking. at least you tried to understand what I'm saying. Thank you so much for the time.

    • People are accustomed the seeing women with a huge bust but deny there are guys with a huge penis. My erect penis is 3 times the average size. Amazingly, with sufficient foreplay most women can accommodate my penis. Give your girl extensive foreplay and let her be in control for penetration. If there is still a problem, she may have vaginismus and need to see a doctor.

  • Become expert at oral and fingering and look at possible toy use. You need to find a way to give her happy pleasure. Consider it a project.

Most Helpful Girl

  • There is no big one which a girl can not bear

    • I know is you are right about that hell I bet that he is trying to scare to act like he has a Big monster and I bet it looks like a damn ines warm 🤣 and everything because female know that if I man like that doesn't try to to show off because guy like me don't have to brag or even try to show off it lol I bet darling that I'm. bigger soft then he is hard lol

    • Using the space to create space for yourself? You are the one trying to take advantage of the situation and convincing her that you are bigger too. Haha funny lol.

    • Girth I agree, length not so much.

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  • good for you. Join a circus, you freak of Nature...

    • Circus for what? Dude understand the problem.

  • Buy some toys to use on/with her

  • Amputate, it's a clear case. Or cut at least a half off.

    • Then how can I enjoy sex?

  • get some lube and go slow

    • I've tried that but still...

  • You'll have to find a different way to pleasure her. And yourself.

  • LMFAO 🤣🤣🤣

    • Please don't laugh the struggle is real. She said it's painful and I'm wondering what the hell.

    • Just how long did it take you to think this one up? 😂

    • It's been a few months. She is saying it's so big and it's hurting her too much when I penetrate it. I don't know what's wrong with her. It's just 23.4 cms and I'm wondering why she can't take it. We are madly in love and when she says this I'm feeling awkward.

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  • Get a smaller dick guy to give her loving. You can always jerk off and watch?

    • Will you do this if you face this issue?

    • Nope, If it were me, I would simply ask her what she wants to do about it, not ask on here. It isn't exactly something you can readily change.

  • Work on your foreplay, dumbass.

    • Show some respect dude.

  • Just buy lube, dude... Be slow and gentle in the beginning.

  • Buy bigger boxers

  • Just cut it off

    • Will you do the same thing?

    • Yep o

  • Stop ✋️ trolling?

    • I ain't trolling dude... Trolling myself?

    • Learn to use it well. Foreplay. Lube. Or learn to please woman by other means.

    • Lots of foreplay, nipplegasm, give oral, use fingers

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  • Do not penetration too deep or ball deep, keep some part of shaft out, during sex

  • dude you're pathetic

  • Wanna trade for a while?

    • Get lost.

    • Dreaming Troll!

  • Assuming it's real then there's only 1 thing you can do.

    Get rid of her and find someone that likes it.

    • That's not possible cus we are madly in love and can't leave each other