My girlfriend hates oral sex beling religious? Is there anyway I can convince her that it's not a religous aspect (if so)?

I don't think that religion prohibit us from oral sex... Although limited knowledge, but I feel that this is not true! So, how can I fix this issue... Or should live with it? I strongly doubt that having no oral sex will lead to bad relationship in the long run... Am I wrong?
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  • This question is becoming increasingly common as young people are told that “oral sex is not really sex,” and as oral sex is promoted as a safer (no risk of pregnancy, less risk of sexually transmitted diseases*) alternative to sexual intercourse. What does the Bible say? Ephesians 5:3 declares, “But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity... because these are improper for God’s holy people.” The biblical definition of “immorality” is “any form of sexual contact outside of marriage” (1 Corinthians 7:2). According to the Bible, sex is to be reserved for marriage (Hebrews 13:4). Period. So, yes, oral sex is a sin if done before or outside of marriage.

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  • Do hynosis and convince her sucking your SO's dick is the way to heaven

    • opes...

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  • Honestly, any sex for pleasure is kind of prohibited. Sex is meant for procreation, not recreation. Oral sex is purely recreational. Are you trying to get oral sex because she won't have vaginal sex with you? Or are you looking to get it in addition to vaginal sex? And most religions (if not all traditional ones) prohibit pre-marital sex. So the fact that you call her your girlfriend and not your wife would mean it's against her religion. Have you asked her what about her religious beliefs makes her hate oral sex? Would she be okay with it if you were married?

    • We do vaginal sex but no oral/anal sex. She thinks that "although pre-marrital sex is not fine but it can be forgiven because it's right way of doing sex". Regarding your statment that any sex for pleasure is prohibited: I don't agree with that because biologically nature created us with a lot of nerve endings in privates so for the sake of pleasure we do that and reproduce. Do you have any thing to prove that sex for pleasure is prohibited?

    • I didn't say we weren't allowed to enjoy sex or have pleasure during sex. But sex purely for pleasure is based in lust rather than love. Sex is meant to be a worshipful expression of the love, self-sacrifice, and union of the marriage relationship. This is deeper and richer than sex for pleasure. Sex as a physical manifestation of God's statement that "they shall become one flesh" (Genesis 2:24). Sex merely for physical pleasure—even within a marriage— is not exemplifying the spirit of mutual submission God intended. Sex should be a part of and a result of a loving marriage relationship, not merely a physical release. (Genesis 1:28) Then God blessed them and said, “Be fruitful and multiply. Fill the earth and govern it. Reign over the fish in the sea, the birds in the sky, and all the animals that scurry along the ground.” (1 Corinthians 6:18) Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. (Matthew 5:28) But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart. (Hebrews 13:4) Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.

  • Within religion sex for pleasure or fun is frowned on

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  • If she can make an exception for premarital sex she can make one for oral sex too.

  • Probably not

  • Yes you are wrong if she don't want to do anything you need to consider that thing however you are just her boyfriend not her Father

    • :D :D :D :D lol that applies to you well ig

    • It apllies to all of us not on both of us lol