At 24, in love but not having much sex?
Do you stay together?
If not, do plan to do so. Then try the following:
1) start a nude lifestyle at home. Eat, cook, do all house chores and relaxation naked. This will contribute to the spread of hormones that may lead to more sex.
2) use scent. There are scents that are made to arouse sexual desires. Ask the shop keeper. Use it to enhance your libido.
3) food and beverage. Heard of aphrodisiacs? Plenty of such food including almond and nice titbits. Find those that raise both your libido.
4) write erotica. Then send to each other for reading. Her writings express what interests her. Follow it you should satisfy her sexually.
5) Just do it. No excuse. Talk and agree to have sex once a day, everyday, for the next 6 months. As the saying goes, if you don't use your tools, they go blunt. To make it more interesting, include a sexual punishment to whoever who turn down sex that day. If both turn down, take turn to punish each other. No excuse.
6) exercise and cut down on smoke and alcohol. This will maintain or enhance your libido.
7) go for date nights. No need expensive restaurants. But walk down memory lane, and eat exotic street food (here we have chicken backside and pig tail).
8) send sexy photos and sext each other when part for work.
I think if you both try the above, her libido should go up and your sex frequencies should increase.
We do stay together. This all is very helpful
Give it a try. Hope it helps make sex a lifestyle for both of you. by the way, if there is "fear of pregnancy", suggest to her insert IUDs. It's a very effective form of contraception. And with it you can fuck raw and no fear for pregnancy. Perhaps a relax mindset will increase her libido too.
Well last girlfriend tried to shut up shop after just 6 months. I told her NO turned me on and made her say No to me repeatedly. Eventually she took responsibility for arousing me. So Yes meant we had sex and No meant we had sex. Perfect until an interfering friends of hers pointed that out to her.
communicate your concern with her, so you two can discuss it like adults and find a solution
We have had discussions about this before
and?
She claims she is not in the mood. She has a low sex drive. I initiate all the time but I would rather She initiate. I think it's also because we are so used to each other now in our relationship. We need to find that spark.
Talk to her about it. Communicate. She's not a mind reader.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!A month? If y'all see each other often, she either has an actual medical condition, which I doubt. Or she's cheating. 100%.
Over a month!
she doesn’t have a sex drive in this case.
I feel for you bud. It's been years for me. Try initiating more often
I am always the one that initiates
How old is she
Same age as me
She does not "love you very much" if she will not have sex with you. There is an excellent chance she is getting her back blown out by some Chad. Move on.
She does love me. She is also not that way
So why does she deny you sex?
She says she is not in the mood. I also initiate it a little just because I have a high sex drive and it may come across as being too much
Maybe she needs to drink some alcohol, that makes them horny
Lmao I mean you're not wrong
Have drink some wine after dinner 😊
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