Girls, My girlfriend just told me she had a threesome during her freshman year of college. Should I leave?

Please help me :( Im confused.
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  • Does it bother you? If so, why? Try to understand your own feelings about it, and then discuss how you feel, and why, with your girlfriend in a serious yet respectful way.

    If this is something that really bothers you, and causes you to see her differently, then breaking up might be the best decision. But keep in mind that this was in the past. Also, just because she did it once, that doesn't necessarily mean that she would do it again, or that it's something she needs in order to be satisfied. So try not to let your own insecurities get in the way too much. Assuming that you two have a great relationship otherwise, that you don't want to lose.

  • oh grow up. everyone has a past. Sorry to inform you not every girl you date is gonna be a virgin. This isn't biblical times. So she had some wild times in college, does that mean she is an awful person? I hope you're not really as shallow as you sound...

    • But I can not forget. She told me everything. She said I love a threesome with.

    • so what?

    • I'm getting married soon. Should I make it a threesome?

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  • What about it bothers you? Do you have all around conservative values? Do you believe is says something negative about her character? If so, why? How does this impact you?

    • She offered me a threesome and We will get married soon? Is this normal?

    • Some people are comfortable doing that with a committed partner while some people aren't. I'm one of those people who isn't. If you aren't interested just let her know. It sounds like it was something she enjoyed before and wanted to have the experience with you. Again, if you aren't into it just let her know.

    • Have you had a threesome?

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  • If that's something that really bothers you, best to talk to her about it. If its something in her past and won't do again or something that she enjoys, etc.

    • Have you had a threesome?

    • Perhaps, perhaps not. A lady never tells ;)

  • It was her past of you really like the girl then let her past be the past but if you can't let it go then move on

    • Is that a normal thing?

    • In this day and age yea it's normal and at least she was honest with you

    • Okay. Have you had a threesome?

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  • Well we can't really make that decision for you. You have to decide if that's something you can live with.

  • Definitely bro, she must be a dirty cheating slut and is cheating on you right now too! :o
    #SarcasmForTheWeak

  • Why should you? It was in the past.

  • Haha! That depends! Is it her freshman year now? If so, leave her! If not, don't worry about it, the past is the past, she got it out of her system and if she's in a relationship she's obviously committed. It's important to live in the now cause the past will just keep you down and miserable!

    • She offered me a threesome and We will get married soon? Is this normal?

    • Well, what's normal really? I think it has to do with what you're comfortable with and definitely discuss this with her before you get married and dont marry her until you trust her! Everyone's fantasys are different, she just happens to enjoy what a lot of other people like.

    • Have you had a threesome?

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  • What does something she did in the past have to do with you guys relationship now?

  • Come on man. Troll smarter. Damn.

  • That's something you should ask yourself and not us.
    Are you ok with this?
    Does it bother you?
    Does the past matter to you?
    Do you have different ideals and ideas about sex?
    I know that if I found out my guy used a prostitute or did porn or a threesome etc I would break up with him.

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