My girlfriend said "WE HAVE SEX ON MY SCHEDULE" basically meaning she controls the sex... am I right to be upset?

[themanwithaplan6666]

Yesterday, my girlfriend of 4 months said "we have sex on my schedule" basically implying that controls when we have sex or not. This really upset me, considering I've been feeling more and more that I put more into the relationship than she does, including sexually. I go down on her, but she barely returns the favour. When she finishes before me during sex, she won't finish me off unless I ask (and I hate asking). She has tried to control me with sex before. I find myself very frustrated sexually. She's the most frigid girl I've been with, and I've been with 11 women. I have never had to ask for oral sex or a handjob before. Other than that, this is the first girl I love. I've talked to her about this before but I'm not seeing many changes. She wants to live together, but I don't want to live with someone who withholds sex, uses it or is selfish with it

[Anonymous]

Basically girls control sex, If they say no is fucking no that's the reason I don't ask my girlfriend anymore about it, I just take It easy until she want it badly. We by the other hand are capable of having sex 24/7, our sex drive is higher.

[es20490446e]

You mean your girl sex drive is lower for you than yours for her.

[Opinion Owner]

@es20490446e Yeah.