My girlfriend says she doesn't love me but she loves my dick. Should I break up with her?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend is basically a nympho. She wants it more than I do most of the times. We've never really been intimate in an emotional way and she's never really been romantic. She doesn't like holding hands, or cuddling or talking about intimate things. She's not really big on kissing on the lips like normal couples either. She rather suck my dick before kiss me.

Yesterday, we were watching a cheesy Netflix Christmas love story and as usual she was bored because she's not into romantic movies but we couldn't find anything better that we hadn't already seen. I put my hands over her to hold her close and instead she pushed me off and just started to unbuckle my pants to start giving me a blow job, but I we had already had sex 2x that afternoon so I wasn't in the mood. I told her to stop and that for once I just wanted some non-sexual intimacy.

She looked at me confused and then I told her I loved her and that I wanted more than just sex sometimes that I just want to feel close to her emotionally. She then rolled her eyes, and told me word for word " I don't love you, I love your dick!"

After that we got into a fight, and she legitimately saw nothing wrong with what she said. She acknowledges that she's my girlfriend but she doesn't think anything more than sex is necessary in a relationship.

I told her I wanted to take a break, and she legit said I quote. "Ok, but can we still fuck?"

[InTimoreDei]

She's basically using you for sexual gratification. Sure, guys can be hormonal and want sexual intercourse really badly; however, sometimes we want a deeper connection. In this case, you two are not on the same page. I would move on and find sometime that actually cares about you.

[Asker]

I'm fine with that, but it hurts because I actually really loved and cared about this girl. Then to find out all this time she didn't give a damn and just wanted sex.

[that_guy92]

Obviously your laying the pipe well. And she probably just has daddy issues. And doesn't like getting to close. Best thing you can do is have fun with the sex. But if a different oppurtunity comes up then dump her and follow suit.

[Keshie]

She CLEARLY doesn't love you so why are you trying to stick around? You guys have been dating for a year. You deserve better.
Id suggest that you move on but if you still want sex and want to be used go ahead but trust me you'll fall deeper in love everytime.

[Denesia]

if you want more than what she's willing to give, then you should move on

[micheal727jovanie]

Yeah I'd break up because I'm not just a piece of meat.

[Asker]

I actually loved her :/

[micheal727jovanie]

Well I'd show her some tough love but that's just me.

[Asker]

should i keep sleeping with her if i dump her?

[micheal727jovanie]

Do what you think is right

[jimyee]

Can't tell if you're trolling or not but it really depends on how long you've been dating for.

[Asker]

1 year

[LegateLanius]

I would be gone

[Asker]

After dating for a year. I actually thought she loved me :/

[LegateLanius]

still, she doesn't care about you. time to leave

[Asker]

should i still sleep with her after the break-up. that seems to be what she cares about most anyway

[LegateLanius]

no. you need to respect yourself.

[JackofSpades]

Did you know she was a nymph before you fell for her?

If the shoe was on the other foot, she would dump you in a heartbeat.

If you want anything more than sex, you won't find it with this woman.

[Asker]

While we were dating she was never emotionally intimate. We would laugh and joke around. But it was similar to how I was with my guy friends. But most of the time she wanted sex at least 2x a day so I probably knew she was either sex crazed or I wanted to believe she just liked me a lot.

[JackofSpades]

She at best sees you as a friends with benefits at worst a walking talking dildo. You can't make her love you. If you want to find love you need to look somewhere else. And continuing to fuck her is not going to help.

[BleepRawrsaurus_Rex]

Ughhh yah

[tylermason]

Welp... yes break up. She only sees you as a sex object

[Assburgers]

Yeah do it.

[driverator]

where do you find these i want one

[maxcates]

I would.

[Asker]

should i keep sleeping with her?

[maxcates]

You shouldn't stay with someone who doesn't even like you. If you're worried about not being able to get a in a new relationship just think that if did it once you can do it again but better this time.

[Lumberman53]

Yeah

[Naiomiiiii]

Leave her!!

[nahian90]

Yes. Definitely.