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My girlfriend says the size of my penis doesn’t bother her?

I found on her browser history on her computer she has been watching porn with monster cocks gangbang does that mean she’s cheating on me and why is she lying?

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The more I think about it and talking to you all it makes more and more sense that she has to be cheating. Why watch monster cock porn if that’s not what you wanted? Then she’s had messages on her phone she says they are emails… I saw an ex trying to face time her at 2 in the morning. She only wants me to masterbate because she can’t feel me inside her probably and she doesn’t want me to get a dildo because she said she doesn’t like the way it feels fake and only likes the real thing!
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  • You could try asking her if she would like to try a dildo as part of the relationship, and then buying a nice large one. See how she reacts to it.

    I'd go with the flow. If you are having regular sex then she is definitely into you and that is more important than the size of your penis.

    If she likes gang bangs you could gradually get a little rougher with her and see if she likes it.

    Be as open as you can and choose your moments to discuss it - good luck!

    • I actually offered her once to get a dildo and she said she doesn’t want that it feels fake and she only likes the real thing. This is what makes me also feel like she’s out there getting the real thing

    • Perhaps you could try anal? She would definitely feel that? How large are you down their, if you don't mind me asking?

    • I’d rather not say but definitely smaller

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Most Helpful Guy

  • There is no evidence that she’s cheating.

    however, if she won’t have sex with you, and she’s watching porn, and talking to other men, then she’s probably not that into you. You need to talk to her more to find out

    • She just appears to me to be lying

    • What is she lying about? All it proves is she likes big dick porn.

    • Yeah exactly she likes big dicks. I don’t have one so she’s obviously lacking in that area. She lied to me about watching porn and the accumulation of it all leads to she probably cheating

Most Helpful Girls

  • Maybe she just went curious. Maybe it's her kink. Maybe she just had to watch something that will turn her on that time. Maybe she went bored. Just like watching your favorite movie, it doesn't mean that she's cheating, unless there's action involved.

    I understand your anxiety about her search history. Yet she assured you, and I think that's a good thing. You'll have to describe the situation more. We can't accuse her without further details.

    • I asked her if she’s been watching porn and she said no! She lied to me. I asked her if she was wanting a bigger cock she said no that my size didn’t bother her. But she also told me her ex was huge. She doesn’t let me have sex with her and she only wants to masterbate with me and she makes me masterbate and just wants to watch

    • Oh, that seems really suspicious. I understand your point. Maybe she's not cheating, but I have to tell you frankly, I think she's not "that" in love. But I can't say that because I'm just a stranger. Try to open your feelings to her, have "the talk" and see what she's going to do about that. If she loves you, she'll be happy to change her habits so you'll feel satisfied about the relationship. Otherwise, if she can't understand your situation, it'll be toxic. Hope you can talk to her about this.

    • Thank you this helps

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  • Doesn't mean she's cheating, it means she likes to watch that type of porn. Everyone has a favorite category when it comes to porn, it doesn't mean that's what you do irl.

    • I feel like if she is fantasying about that and watching porn with that specific? Her search was specific to monster cocks. So why look for that if you didn’t care about me and my size and I feel like she’s been not telling me more I have been suspicious

    • Don't you watch different types of porn?

    • No I don’t watch porn anymore I thought she didn’t either it was a shock to find out she is. When I did look at porn it was only one thing and it was what I liked and wanted and I found that in her so don’t care about porn

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  • It isn't evidence of cheating, but her porn and her friending strange men on social media may be a red flag to remember in case more red flags appear one day. Sometimes they add up to conclusive evidence.

  • Right...

    • She must love you which is very good thing. You should value her highly. As long as she is haing the O regularly she probably does not. The bottom line is they do not like lying to their girlfriends. And, if you have ever been around a group of them, you know they are brutal !!! We guys will talk smack... and we know it. Girls, that I know, are not that way. That's why I hang out with some... They will give it to me straight !

  • 1. Stop watching interracial porn.

    2. Seek psychological counseling.

    • Ah yes! The same kind of non-answer you always give me in my questions! Very helpful! Even though the guy literally said he doesn’t even watch porn and just saw her browser history. Can you actually fcking read? Seriously.

    • @WhiteBoyChill 1. Stop watching interracial porn. 2. Seek psychological counseling.

    • @WhiteBoyChill seriously thanks dude, yeah some people are ridiculous

  • Sounds like you have self esteem issues. I like watching cream pie videos, but I definitely don’t obsess over cream pies.

    • Definitely not self esteem issues more like relationship issues lying and fantazing about others is not healthy

  • How is she lying sorry? Or cheating

    • Well, if she didn’t care about my size then why is she looking at monster cock gangbangs porn behind my back she’s obviously fantasizing over that.

    • How is she doing it behind your back sorry are u telling me the only porn u watch is about women that look like her her porn choice is not a statement of you this seems simply that u are insecure

    • I don’t watch porn and I didn’t know she was watching porn I recently became suspicious and began looking and I found what she’s been watching she recently had more guys on her Instagram she’s friended too

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  • Bro just ask her! It's that simple!

    • I did innitially but she lies

  • Maybe she speaks the truth?

    • Did you see the rest of the question? Why is she watching porn with monster cocks?

    • That's not proof she is cheating.

    • I think she’s cheating on me with guys who have big dicks

  • If she won't even fuck you then why are you wasting your time?

    • Well in the beginning I understood or thought it was because she didn’t want to have sex but then I realized it was because she doesn’t like my size

  • Doesn't matter until it does.
    What DOES matter more than anything is the size of the wallet.
    A guy with a little dick and big wallet will go further in "love" than a guy with a big dick and little wallet.
    BELIEVE me here.

  • Why are you spying on her?

    • Because I have seen to many things to become suspect of it all and now I caught her in lies

    • Then break up with her or you're a stalker.

  • It's porn don't worry about it. All you need to worry about is do you make her orgasm in bedroom and happy out of it

    • Yeah I do and she does but she’s still fantasizing about that behind my back that’s a problem

  • I don't think she is cheating... but a lot of girls fantasize about big penis's.. especially after they already had one.

    • That’s what she said to me she said all girls talk about and want a big penis. But says she’s fine with mine. I feel like she’s cheating then

  • So what if that's her fantasy. There's no way your porn searches match her

    • When I did look at porn they did match her completely but I don’t even look at porn now and haven’t in a long time! If you have a fantasy then you must want that and she lied to me about looking at porn

  • She is cheating. Don’t believe the bullsh*t other people tell you.

    And if this isn’t proof I have every right to be worried about my dick, than I don’t know what is.

    @rolandcuthbert

  • Tbh if she is not cheating yet she will probably eventually seek out a large penis.

    • Wow that was a gut punch but I’m so glad for your honesty. Especially coming from a women. Us guys can speculate all I want but to hear from a womens perspective, sounds like cold truth that makes me happy to hear so I can deal with this situation. I actually got a ring for her and wanted to marry her but now everything that going on I’m so heart broken and have to hear and see my truth in this matter. I think she really craves and wants a bigger penis. I tried everything to work around it and it does not make her happy. So for her to go behind my back to watch and masterbate to monster cocks, one of her exes calling her in the middle of the night that she told me in the beginning of the relationship has a huge dick. I’m pretty sure she cheating on me or at least masterbating to eachothwr on face time ugh this sucks!

    • If he has a huge penis, and she is obsessing over them, it’s not a good sign. Tbh the relationship between girls and penis is complicated , in many cases doesn’t matter or smaller can create more orgasms , but in some cases a girl can be ruined by by large penis size. I can’t say for certain In your case but this is a bad part of porn. But not only has she seen them in porn but experienced In real life , and it seems important to her. Maybe it is her fetish. If you can’t find a way to accommodate it , I don’t think it will just go away soon. Could be wrong. I’m sorry.

    • Yeah you’re right, I think she will always want that and eventually cheat on me or watch porn behind my back I needed the relationship

  • Size do matter. I just want to say that

  • Both of you need to grow up!

    • Not sure why you’re telling me this I’m trying to have a good healthy relationship and she’s doing all these things just sucks. Some women suck

  • Doesn’t mean she is cheating, it’s all fantasy anyway and knows the difference

  • she's lying to you

    • Yeah I knew it I think so too. There’s no way she’s telling the truth then searching for monster cocks on porn to masterbate to.

  • what is your size?

    • Well I’d rather not say but it’s smaller

    • Your anonymous, it's not a big deal, you can say. Small isn't bad by the way.

    • It’s almost 4 inches

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