MY girlfriend used to give blowjobs regularly and now she stopped give me head?

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Hello- I am 34 years and I am living with my girlfriend for 3 years. We used had a great sex life and she used to give blowjobs regularly which I enjoyed a lot from one whom you love. We used to had great blowjob and intercourse. She used to make my cum on her mouth until I finish cumming. I loved that. I was totally enjoyed. WE never had handjob and I never regret even though I like it. Problem started to occur in past 9-10 months and she stopped giving me blowjobs and we hardly had intercourse may be 2 times a month. I am kind of sex lover and we love each other a lot. Now adays the question in mind why she stopped giving me head when she knows I loved it. I request her few times and she refused. one day she giving me a head and I was hard but middle of it she stopped. I have no idea what made her feeling that way. I know she loves sex a lot and so do I. all these leading us upset and sometime I end up quarrel and angry. day by day it is getting more and more complex and we are not happy as we used to be. last month I was horny as we did not had sex for 2 months and I end up masturbate myself , I was feeling may be I am cheating but as man It is hard to hold as the poison needs to be released. So I ended up doing myself. My girlfriend is beautiful and she used make me happy and I feel satisfied when we do sex. I am wondering what happends and what changed in last 9 months and why she is behaving like that. Now she is upset and so do I as one thing leads another. Please advice how I can back my girlfriend back as we used to be?

ecfresh · Accepted Answer

You question in your mind.. ask her. Talk to her, figure it out. Ask her how she wants you to turn her on, what’s her love language, and how you can make her feel special outside of the bedroom. When you focus your efforts on romance and she feels adored and cherished, the bjs will come back.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

Find a good sex therapist. I'm betting they can help.

Thatsamazing · Answer

Did you gain weight or something man? Is it an issue of her not being as attracted to you maybe?

Iron_Man · Answer

She stopped it is what it is

Prime_Sol · Answer

Just find a better girlfriend dude. It's easy

TheFlak38 · Answer

study after study after study has shown that once you move in with a woman the sex decreases and often the relationship ends soon. She loses her competition anxiety and feels that she doesn't have to give you anything because obviously she got you firmly in her grip. You NEVER move in with a woman! You keep your place, she keeps hers. Continue playing with her insecurities and she will be running back to you to give sex in return for validation. Move in with her and it's over.

COMMODOREII · Answer

You might need to talk and see what's going on with the relationship before you fix the sex.

Twalli · Answer

You left the honeymoon phase, if you stay together it will not be as it was. Once you reach the stage past these tough ones you'll realize that you don't want to go back to that stage. I can explain the tough stages to you if you want.

handcuff418 · Answer

You must have married her, that's when it stops. Lol

Cannuck22 · Answer

So what’s her name and number. I will call her and ask her why.

Anonymous · Answer

Dude, women only do that shit when they are trying to trap you. She has you now... she doesn't have to anymore (or she is cheating.)

Anonymous · Answer

maybe she became asexual?

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