What does it mean when my girlfriend doesn't want me to touch her boobs or other parts of her body? Do you think that I did something wrong? But when I asked her, she told me that there is nothing wrong with me...
First of all, let's just make one thing crystal clear: her body, her rules. If she says she's not comfortable with something, then that's it. Full stop. Even if it was fine before, it doesn't mean it's gonna be fine forever. People's boundaries and comfort levels can change for all sorts of reasons.
Now, as for why she's changed her mind, there could be a bunch of possibilities. Maybe she's going through some personal stuff that's making her feel less comfortable with physical intimacy right now. Maybe something happened in her life that's making her reevaluate what she's comfortable with. Or hey, maybe she's just not in the mood for that kind of touch lately. Hormones, stress, and a million other things can affect how someone feels physically.
The most straightforward way to understand what's going on is to have an open, honest convo about it. But—and this is important—do it in a way that makes it clear you're coming from a place of concern and understanding, not entitlement or frustration. Ask her if there's a specific reason she's feeling this way, and let her know that you respect her decision regardless of what it is. Whatever you do, don't make it seem like you're trying to convince her to go back to how things were—that's not gonna help and could make things worse.
In what circumstances are you touching her? Sometimes it gets tiring to be sexualized in a non-sexual situation. For example, sometimes when I’m doing something in the kitchen, my boyfriend will come in and he’ll reach around and squeeze my boobs from behind or he’ll grab my waist and hump me. It can be annoying because there’s a time and place for that. It’s like, I’ll have sex with you later but right now I’m busy. Why not ask if I need help or just talk to me while I’m working? It can make you feel like a sex object sometimes instead of person. I don’t know if that’s what is going on in your relationship or not but I thought I’d throw it out there.
I don't know it's myth or reality but some feels/thinks that touching it more grows boobs size so girls avoid that sometimes. My boyfriend's ex had same reason she didn't willing him to do after sometime.
Myth. The only way boob size can increase is by gaining weight or getting pregnant.
She might have just started to find it annoying. At the end of the day, her body is her personal space. She doesn't really need a reason; she can revoke access to anyone at any time, because her boobs are her personal space.
You might be able to just ask her directly, after a month or something has passed. Just like a "hey babe, I was just curious if you didn't like how I was touching you," or something along the lines of wanting to make sure that you are touching her in a way that she finds pleasing. You have to be really careful how you approach that conversation because it could easily seem like you don't want to respect her wishes, and (I'm hoping) that's not why you want to know.
You don't want to do it too soon, because she might think you're trying to debate her on the topic.
She probably feels like the only thing you want from her is sex and nothing else , Most girls’ aren’t as touchy feely as most guy’s prefer her to be , so she probably feels like she is just an object to you. Best thing for you to do is back off from her and let her come to you , let her make the first move make her chase you , if she doesn’t start chasing you , then that’s your answer to move on from her cuz she might be investing her time into someone else and stringing you along cuz she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. No matter her reason it’s not your problem , Make her feel like you are perfectly fine without her , Girls tend To love the game of chase , so make her chase you
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!i hate it when a guy wants to touch my boobs while i'm giving him a blowjob it can be a distraction.
it distracts youuu?
@Light_beam yes how would you like to suck a dick and some guy keeps reaching for your boobs
but sucking dick shouldn't be a complex procedure, right? your boobs serves the purpose of the sucking , touching your boobs makes him more horny and faster yo cum.. you can't deny him your boobs in this moment.. too harsh especially that you have pretty boobs..
Her body, her choice.
Try asking her specifically why she won't let you touch her boobs anymore.
First of all, respect her feelings on the matter.
Secondly, is it possible that she has been raped or experienced something bad?
Even if she hasn't recently it's possible that you might have triggered something, if she has a past memory.
I would imagine you are constantly grabbing your girlfriends boobs, ass, pussy and she is tired of all the disrespect.
things change.
9/10 my boobs just feel like fat and numb mounds of flesh. So it isn't sexy for me to have them touched because you may as well fondle a pillow for how much it does for me. It's just how it can work.
What's your boobs size?
@bros26 uk 38 k
Aah sexy very sexy 😘
Tell her to let you know what is going on and be honest with you. Better than guessing
if you were just randomly fondling her, she might not find that enjoyable anymore. If that is the case, perhaps save the touchy feely moments for when you're being more intimate.
Sometimes boobs get very senstive and we don't want them touched. Or maybe you are too rough. Best to ask her why she doesn't like it anymore
What's your size?
@bros26 really big
How much big? R u married?
Does she put out or she is useless? is her problem is only with her boobs or in general?
YOU'RE useless
Useless feminist that don't put out, go to hell you useless asexual feminist. :)
Whoever said I didn't, troll? I'm quite happily married. You only have a blowup doll & prostitutes
It’s possible her boobs can be sensitive just like if she grabs your nuts.
She seems like she isn't getting turned on by you anymore. Not sure if you've done anything she didn't like (to rough, not enough foreplay, said something offensive your last go around) but she is harboring resentment for some reason.
There's "nothing wrong" with the other guy she IS letting touch them either I'd suspect...
Sounds like you are fetishizing her or objectifying her. Not a great feeling.
Things move FORWARD... they do not regress BACKWARDS.
If she wants to go backwards then this relationship is over.
Move on.
yeah you probably did it too much
Maybe she has periods.
Maybe you are a little too rough with your touch. Slight possibility that it could be another issue and she is waiting to tell you.
Well she has obviously decided not to allow you physical intimacy. Were you having sex before this?
If not and she is a virgin she might be thinking that physical intimacy will lead to sex and she doesn't want that to happen. It she isn't a virgin than that explanation doesn't seem valid.
Have a conversation where you don't start off assuming you are at fault. It is the only way.
Did you ask if they are sensitive?
Trust me, it can be annoying as hell.
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