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My girlfriend wants hardcore spanking, should I do it?

I always enjoyed watching spanking porn. When we were fooling around I hit her ass once and while it was something completely new for her it turned out she enjoys it. Lately I had the chance to spank her regularly as our foreplay and we both had a lot of fun.

Last night she suprised me when she said she wants me to spank her as hard as I can up to a bleeding point with my hand or some tool eventually. I was always holding myself back and doing it only to a point where her ass blushes, because I thought it would hurt her if I hit her more. I'm also surprised how quickly she got into this.

Do you think it is okay if we go this way? While I enjoy hardcore sex I don't want to turn our relationship into some full bdsm relation, not now for sure. Or maybe I'm completely overthinking this situation?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • That is the same way it started with my guy and me. I got a rather sharp slap on the bum, which was more than he intended. It hurt, but turned me on. SInce then, I have been a sub in the bedroom. My guy can do anything he choses, but we have a safe word in case it gets too much.

    If it is what she wants, go for it. Best to discuss the limits beforehand.

    • I should add that I get caned every now and again, too.

    • And does it affect your relationship outside the bedroom?

    • No. I am very assertive normally.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • If she wants give it her, u don't wanna tempt her to get what she wants elsewhere now do u? (Except 3rd person involvment but that speaks for it self

  • I wouldn’t recommend it. She can take pictures of her bruises and tell the police you were abusive if the relationship ends badly.

    • Good point, thanks.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • You're probably just over thinking the situation. She's into the spanking. Give her what she wants.

  • Yeah my girlfriend now wife would love it i hit it so hard my hands would sting i had a new pair of flip-flops never worn and I use to slap her ass with them after a while I told her we need to ease up when she would put on her jeans it would burn and irritate her friction ass to jeans

  • heck yea

  • Sounds like she's been reading too much 50 shades of grey. Lol

    • Hahaha, actually she said that movie sucks and she is not into BDSM, but we're both inexperienced so I guess she don't know what she likes yet.

  • Duh, yes.

  • I’m glad that you two got to some serious foreplay spanking—
    But I agree with you that I wouldn’t want to get into serious injury… which, by the way, is considered battery and illegal—and she can’t give you verbal or even written authorization (see Wikipedia “legality of BDSM”). So beware of anything that could require medical attention. If you’re both willing from the start—and check with her frequently as you ramp up—maybe try something more intense like using a whip that doesn’t leave long-lasting damage. Maybe reply back so we know how it turns out?

  • no, absolutely not

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