My girlfriend wants me to be rough with her. Is that bad?

Basically she wants me to be super rough with her. I don't know how to feel about this. Do girls like extreme rough sex? Does she like rough sex because she's had sex so much that normal sex is boring to her?
0 0

Most Helpful Girls

  • If you're not comfortable with it tell her.

    Some people do claim to like rough sex, but eith no prior experience together being rough I wouldn't advise just jumping into it. You guys should have a talk aboit boundaries. And spend some time experiementing and seeing what the limits are. What's rough to her may not be tough to you and what's rough to you might be way too rough for her. " rough" is such a nebulous term.

    You'd both feel bad of you accidentaly really hurt her.

  • the reaso she thinks it's hot is probably because it feels like you want her so badly and She makes u so horny that u can't even control yourself you want her that bad. obviously it's ok because she wants you to do it so you're not really forcing her to do anything. but women get turned on when guys get horny because of them.

  • Some do, just make sure that you both know whatever safe word you choose and to stop the minute either is uncomfortable. Rough sex can be a very vulnerable and intimate experience for both partners so it's important that you're both comfortable with whatever level you take it to.

  • It's the best! But you can still have really sensual, erotic, pleasing sex without it being "vanilla" she probably just wants to switch things up a bit.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It all depends on the girl, some do and some don't. My gf's definition of rough sex is tie me down in a chair and duct tape my mouth. The foreplay though is not rough, its more of me being gentle, sweet, and play of words.

  • I wouldn't just because if the relationship goes bad she can go to the police and say you raped her. And there will be tons of marks on her body to prove that you "raped" her but you had rough sex.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

7 6
  • She wants rough sex becuse she does. My girlfriend was a virgin and she sometimes likes it soft, sometimes I tear it up. Just depends on what she wants. Don't delve so deep into someone like that, it will drive you crazy for no reason

  • Rough sex/ BDSM is a way to test your limits. 9 out of 10 women want rougher sex. So the man will show dominance and how bad he wants her.

  • basically she's a kind of "rapist" if she's forcing you to have rough sex without yout will.

  • When I have rough sex... that is when I have my biggest orgasms. I love rough, hard pounding sex.

  • Rough sex is pretty normal.

  • Well if she says she wants it then she wants it. If you're not comfortable with it then let her know.

  • She has given consent and expressed desire, indulge her until these are removed or you feel uncomfortable.

  • She most likely doesn't want you to hurt her just show her how much of a man you are. My boyfriend has the same problem lol

    • I think so. I like it rough too. No choking though

  • What's wrong with that?

  • Lots of girls like it, it's normal.

    • You like it?

  • She wants your dominance. She wants you to take control and show her what's yours.

  • Doing the same thing too often can get boring, yes.

  • lots of girls like it rough yes