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Girls, my girlfriend wants me to start wearing thongs?

Me and my girlfriend just moved in together. We have been dating for little over a year. After we moved in together she learned that during the day I wear boxers And when I sleep I only wear jockey elance bikini briefs. The first night she teased me a little bit because they do look a little feminine. The second night she asked me if I had any thongs to go with them, (I said no). The third night she said nothing. Yesterday when I got home from work she had a couple of packages of men jockey thongs on the bed. And she told me that she wants me to stop wearing both the briefs and the boxers and only wear thongs. I mean they are mens thongs but they are still thongs. Im kind of on the fence or what to do if I should wear them or not?

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  • Hmm, I don't like the fact that she practically forces you to wear what she wants and takes your power of decision away.

    To me, that sounds like a very toxic person that wants to impose her will onto others. It looks as if you are not in a position to voice your concern or even decide for yourself what you want to wear. If you don't react to this negative behavior of hers, you will progressively lose your independence and if you are not cautious, you will find yourself being a slave of all her wishes.

    I would not agree to such an infringement of your privacy and right to decide for yourself what you want for yourself.

    • She hasn't forced me to do anything. The eleance bikinis I currently wear to bed is something I have done for a long time. She is not forcing me to do anything she is stating that she wants me to wear them. On an additional note why would a girl want her boyfriend to wear thongs?

    • There is a huge difference between "I want you to wear..." and "I wish you would wear...". If you tell me that she wants you to wear something, that is pretty much an order in my eyes and not a wish. As to why she wants you to wear thongs, knowing that they are highly uncomfortable to wear, she is the only one that could answer this question. I see no logic behind that request.

    • What would you think if your boyfriend wore thongs?

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  • You should only do what you are comfortable with. I personally hate thongs and no matter if my fiancé said he wanted me to wear them or not because he liked them, I wouldn't. I just don't find them comfortable.

    So, he respects my decision that I don't like them and has never asked. That is because we have two very important parts to a relationship down very good. One is communication. The other is respect.

    I communicated that I don't care for that style and he had respect that it was my decision and never would press the issue. So, if you are not comfortable wearing a certain style, don't. Tell her you don't want to because they are uncomfortable.

    If she respects you, she will understand and that should be the end of the discussion.

    • She respects me she not forcing me to do anything. She really wants me to start wearing thongs instead of boxers or bikini. But on an additional not why would a girl want her boyfriend to wear thongs any way? K ask because She wears thongs

    • You literally say "she told me that she wants me to stop wearing both the briefs and the boxers and only wear thongs". That isn't exactly forcing but she is telling you to do something. So, to my original opinion, she needs to be respectful of what you want to wear. If you find them comfortable, fine. If not, don't wear them. Either way, it is your choice like many users have pointed out. As to why she wants you to? No clue. Perhaps she likes the way they look but I can tell you from experience that thongs are not comfortable and not something I will ever wear again.

    • What would you think if your boyfriend wore thongs?

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  • There is no harm in trying them. She clearly wants you to. You might find you like them! They take a bit of getting used to. At least for me tho, they became super comfy after a little while. They might become all you wear…. Lol

    • That what she wants, for me to only wear thongs. I what do you think of guys who wear thongs?

    • Also what would you think if your boyfriend wore thongs?

    • I can’t say it’s something I’m into but to each their own. If I was dating a guy and it was his thing, I think I woudent really care. It woudent be a turn on or a turn off for me. As long as he wasent stealing mine…. lol I find them to be comfy so it woudent be fair if me to judge.

  • Getting used to a thong takes a while. Tell her you'll start by wearing them after you come home and have a shower, then wear them at night for her.

    On the weekends you can practice some more. It takes some getting used to. When you first put them om it'll feel super weird probably.

    My husband has some nice ones, but he doesn't wear them exclusively. It's mostly something that comes on after shower at night when he wants to spice up things a bit.

    You might get used to them, maybe even like them. You'll see with time.

  • Try them out and see what you think of them. I'm sure she will appreciate you at least making the effort.

    • Is it common for guys to wear thongs?

    • Not common, but I don't really think that matters

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  • you just have to get used to them. and start wearing thongs. there is nothing wrong with it, maybe you will even like it with time ;).

    • Is it common for guys to wear thongs?

  • I’d you want to go ahead, if not she can’t force you.

    • What would you think if your boyfriend wore thongs?

    • I wouldn’t have a boyfriend.

    • Why would that be such a deal breaker?

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  • I think a woman would want her boyfriend to wear thongs because it’s sexy and boys/men’s butts are hot and we want to see and play with them. It’s a turn on but personally not everyday, for sure were your normal underwear but like a few times a month play around with something different. Only do what makes you confident, sometimes confidence from new things comes from experimenting and seeing the reaction from your partner. Try it, but don’t let anyone dictate what you are doing. Do those things for your own pleasure and confidence.

  • You'll get used to them soon enough. If that's what she likes, I'd suggest you do it if you ever want her to do something you like.

    • Is it common for guys to wear thongs?

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