Girls, my girlfriend watches porn, is this even normal?

I never really thought girls did this, but I looked through my girlfriend's phone (I know I shouldn't have but it's due to an experience I had of walking in on her in the bathroom) and she not only watches porn, but saves gifs and worse images guys that are bigger than me and in her search history there is listed "big cocks" and twink porn and that made me feel inadequate since I'm pretty small... She watches BDSM and gay male porn and the men are a lot bigger than me. This just disturbs me and I hate the fact that she masturbates to it, I once accidentally walked in on her masturbating while looking at her phone in the bathroom and I didn't see what it was obviously, I thought maybe it was just in my head and that she wasn't getting off but now that I think about it I know she was. It just fucking bothers me so much. I asked her why she watches it if she has me but she kept saying she "used to" and it was just for masturbatory purposes. What do I do, should I dump her?
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  • What lol no dont dump her! Its just porn man. I watch porn all the time and am in a lovrly committed relationship with a boyfriend whose definitely smaller than male porn stars. That doesn't mean he doesn't please me lol. I even have a porn blog and have shown it to him, he knows my tastes in porn and I know that he masturbates sometimes and im totally cool with that. Having a partner does not mean that you're no longer allowed to touch your body for pleasure. Dont compare yourself to pornstars, their dicks are big because they want the watcher to make the assumption that theyre good at sex but that isn't usually true. To break up with someone because they watch porn and masturbate is crazy, it just makes it seem like you're so afraid that you aren't what she wants in this one part of relationship that you won't even try to learn how to make your sex life what you both what and would rather throw away the whole relationship.

    • Also, going through her a phone is a no-no. there's a disconnect in trust somewhere, and unless she has a history of cheating on you, there should not be, unless you are having some kind of performance or confidence issues.

    • Yeah, you're right... It is pretty crazy.. It's not like she would cheat or that I don't satisfy her, I know she loves me. But yeah, thanks for your input it helps

    • Look, you should just talk to her. The thing about thinking she shouldn't watch porn is that she might feel stifled thinking that she's not allowed to masturbate in your relationship or something. Big dicks aren't all that great because most big dick guys just pump and dont care about getting a lady some pleasure. Dont worry about size unless she doesn't seem to enjoy sex and before you think your size is the problem, give her clit and nipples a little more attention.

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  • I don't see why she feels the need to being in a relationship, but if you simply want a comparison to the rest of the majority of the women in this world, then yes, it's "normal". However your feelings about it are normal too, as porn has been known to cause distrust and insecurities in relationships. Just let her know that her having all these nasty gifs and pictures saved makes you feel uncomfortable and go from there.

    • Thanks, I think I will have a talk with her. Hopefully she just admits to it and understands :/

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  • Maybe t

    • you should talk to her, you know communication, that's a thing in relationships. Sorry phone acting up

    • Yeah, I agree Thanks for the response (:

  • In my relationship I would be heartbroken if my boyfriend watches porn. I actually ask him about it quite often and he Denies it every time and I still don't know what to believe. I guess I'm crazy and have trust issues lol. But if I did see porn on his phone I would most certainly dump him. If you're with me, you shouldn't need to get off to anyone else if I'm always sexually available and ready to try new things. I don't deal with that.

    • Yeah I feel you on that. I'm tied between thinking well maybe it's normal especially after reading other responses but at the same time it still bothers the hell out of me

    • I mean you do what you think is right, but I know what I deserve and that is a man who is ALL about me with no desire to look in another females direction. I actually think that's what everyone deserves with their significant other.

  • Do you watch porn? Do you look at other chick's pictures? Do you save pictures of chicks with large tits and toned ass? If yes, that sort of makes you a hypocrite :3.

  • hahahaha a lot of us watch porn, we just don't admit to it boy you made me laugh 😂 "I never really thought girls did this" pffffffffffff