My girlfriend won't have a threesome with me?

I feel like I am not satified because my girlfriend won't have a threesome. I already talked things out with her. I have already decided to end this relationship because I am about to cheat on her. How do I know if a woman is down for a threesome? I want to know so that in the future I don't have this fucking problem. Also, please don't say, "ask her if she is bisexual" BECAUSE THAT MEANS NOTHING.
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  • Get bisexual girl to be friends with benefits. Girls aren't likely to have a threesome with their boyfriend/husband even if they were comfortable doing so in the past. Threesomes are one of those wild fantasies they get out of their system BEFORE they settle down. So if a girl is planning on settling down with you chances are she won't be interested in a threesome with you.

    You're much more likely to get a threesome with a friends with benefits. You have to be the guy she wants to explore her sexuality with, NOT the guy she wants to marry.

    • read the full fucking thing

    • I did read the whole thing

  • It's an unrealistic expectation, man.. Perhaps offer her a threesome with 2 guys first, and see if she'll reciprocate?

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  • In what world do you live in exactly? A girlfriend is not a sexual object you're supposed to love her and care for her. You clearly failed miserably on being a boyfriend. Do her a favour and dump her, before you hurt her even more. Oh, and if you want a threesome, no problem! Prostitutes are there for that!! DOUCHEBAG

  • You're going to keep having this problem.

    Why? Contrary to the porn-crafted image, the vast majority of women aren't into threesomes.

    Moreover, a probable large majority of those who are into them, would prefer it to be two guys.

    • Well statistics show that the vast majority of women watch lesbian porn and get turned on from watching other women.

    • For argument's sake, let's assume that's true. Be that as it may, watching porn is light years away from participating in a threesome.

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      I disagree, these women wouldn't be watching something that they aren't attracted to. They are attracted because they want to try it.

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  • Asking if they are bisexual does often work but since you don't want that answer ask her about her fantasies

    • No it doesn't. Just because they are bisexual doesn't mean that they are down for a threesome. Go and educate yourself more

    • ... imma let that one slide. But I know multiple woman that are bisexual and would go for it, maybe your not talking to the right ones

    • But them being bisexual doesn't necessarily mean that they will have a threesome. Maybe they prefer monogamy on and off. Sometimes with men. Sometimes with women. Just because you know these women doesn't mean anything. It is coincidental.

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  • You're a retard LMAO. Just don't get into a relationships if you aren't gonna take them seriously smh

    • I feel the same way because she didn't sexually satisfy me

    • Dude she's not asking for an extra dic. The POINT OF a relationship is between TWO people not 4,5 and 6. Gtfo

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  • Then from the beginning before she cares for you or you her, you need to make sure whoever you choose to date knows that not being okay with a threesome is a deal breaker. Lay it out from the beginning.

  • You are an asshole.

    • Why? I chose not to stay in a relationship where I wasn't being sexually satisfied.

    • Because relationships aren't about sex. There's more than just physical gains you can get out of it. The physical side is just a bonus. If you're in a relationship you should love THEM and not what they can give you. And now you're going to cheat on her? My advice: Don't ask her out in the first place

    • However, a big part of relationships are sex. In this case, I wasn't sexually satisfied at all.

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