My Grandma walked in onmy husband and I, what do I do?

I am married and living on my own, we dont have any kids but my grandmother is very lonley as she lost her son (my uncle) a few years ago and my mom lives 500 miles away, so she comes and picks up her great grand dog (our dog) about 2-3 times a week and spends time with her. Well my husband and I were having sex in our living room and my grandmother shows up unanounced with some new toys for Thena, she walks in a sees us having sex, she gasped and went back outside and waited until we got dresed to come back in, She took Thena to play for a few hours at the park. I am so so embarassed and I have no idea what to do. My husband just laughed it off but how do I face her when she comes back to drop off Thena?
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  • Just do what us good old brittish do and pretend it never happened. Never bring it up to your grandma and just leave it.

    I mean that convo is there to have your a married couple, living on your own and she came around without telling you. Really it's her own fault and will teach her to ya know give a curtsy call next time

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  • Tell her your husband was bending you over to show you the 50 states. Kidding, grandma knows the birds and bees so joke about it and tell her “That was some show, huh?” And laugh it off. She’ll be fine.

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  • Honestly, these things are only a big deal if you make it into one. If I were her I'd just say: "Sorry you saw that mema, can you give me a ring before you come over on non-usual days?" then never bring it up again.

  • She’s your grandma, it’s not like she’s never done that before. I would just laugh it off a bit, say you weren’t expecting her and ask her to call or knock before she comes in.

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  • So you're married yet living on your own... Just how does that work?

  • Just apologise and or pretend it never happend

    • Why does she have to apologize, its her house and grandma came in unannounced. If anything grandma needs to apologize. They were doing nothing wrong.

    • Ofc they wernt doing anything wrong the sorry is just for what the gran saw yes she turned up unannounced but this is a understanding that they already have the issue is not that she turned up without saying because op states she is fine with that just that the issue is what she saw so a simple sorry to get past the awkwardness should help to sort that

  • Tell her she saved your life because you were play acting a kidnapping and he was trying to steal your clothes.

  • I'm sure she knows you have sex, so don't worry about it. Just apologize and move on.

  • Maybe just don't mention it but she might understand you are married and no kids you probably gonna have sex more. Also she should of at least let you know she was coming.

  • Tell her she needs to knock on the door before allowed to enter your home and take away the keys from her.

  • You think she and your grandfather probably didn't do the same thing?

  • My grandmother used to give me bath until I was 17. I used to mastrubate Infront of her

    • That’s not normal

  • No door locks?

  • Don’t make a big deal about it. Life goes on!

  • She's a grandmother. She's seen it before.

  • Say Oops your fault for not calling ahead of time

  • What position were you 2 in?