My husband can’t not stop watching shemale porn?

[Anonymous]

So I’ve been married for 32 years 18 years ago I found out that he’s been watching shemale porn and he’s obsessed with it he doesn’t have sex with me regularly, but he told me that he likes to get off while watching shemale porn daily. I do not know what to think or how to go about this I’ve noticed on his phone that he has erased all off the searches and history and I cannot find a way how to retrieve that information due to the fact that it’s on his phone does anybody know what can I do or how can I retrieve this information I think he’s lying to me again about everything and it’s killing me inside I do not know what to do.

[Daniela1982]

Tell him to shape up or ship out. What he is doing amounts to cheating, especially if he denies you in preference to getting off to porn instead.

[Asker]

I totally agree with you, he just doesn’t understand that is wrong. I wish I could see what he deleted on his phone and what pages he visited.

[Guy13]

If I was you GET OVER that... it is irrelevant at this point. You-go to Addictions counselor and get educated SO that you know how to properly interact with a "cocaine" addict. Then it may be a good idea for marriage or couple counselor.

[TommyMountainFigure]

You only have 2 choices.. stay or leave. Even if you found the evidence on his phone.. those choices still remain as your only 2 no?

[Asker]

Tough decision

[TommyMountainFigure]

Sadly nobody can make it for you though and both decisions will cause you upset.. I'm really sorry.

[DavidRaul]

Well he seems gay to me. Cause he talked to the counselor alone first. Thats shady

[Asker]

Totally agree with you, I think it was pretty rotten that he wouldn’t let me talk to the counselor.

[DavidRaul]

Yeah exactly. I think its time for you to move on

[Guy13]

It seems like marriage counseling would be a good idea at this time. At least for you so that you understand Addictions.

[Asker]

In the past we did go to a marriage counselor because he would not kiss me or touch me ge only wanted to do it and be done. It turns out that he told me he wanted to talk to the counselor by himself 1st before we both got together with the counselor, And then after a few sessions by himself he told me he didn’t want to go anymore.

[Guy13]

CONSULT A PROFESSIONAL: Sounds like you could be with Narcissist. Now, Sociopathic and psychopathic are all little different but same. Some say that the Selfie 🤳 Narcissist is the first step towards socio/psycho pathology. It may be good to Search those traits and how they Present in real life🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

[Avicenna]

See if he'll do couples counseling. It's obviously interfering with your life together.

[Asker]

I do not know what else to do I did tell him if he wanted to stay we need to go to counseling, 32 years is a long time but I feel like at this point I do not know who he is he is 53 years old and I thought that maybe at this point in his life he would know what he wanted it is very hard for me because this is the love of my life

[humanearth]

He feels ashamed that he hides it

He will not stop, you either learn to live with it or leave him

[FunkyMonkee]

Not even to eat dinner?

[Reaper1985]

if you opt to stay buy a strap-on and peg his ass with it. if you opt to leave/kick him out then consider filing for a separation or divorce.

[Iron_Man]

Thats gay take him to a psychologist

[Asker]

If I could I would.

[Iron_Man]

Do it or take a break for a month take care children with you don’t stand for that

[Iron_Man]

I mean taking the children with you when you leave for 30 days

[Iron_Man]

If that doesn’t work out then get divorced

[Wise4myage]

Yikes, that's creepy.

[Asker]

Totally agree with you that’s why it bothers me so much

[qusai_jo]

maybe his bisexual try to find that and be cool , talk about his need , maybe you can buy strap-on dildo and enjoy new experience

[fred_durst]

so he is bi i guess

[PatriceONeal]

What a twist

[flipflopBD5]

Have you asked him if you would like a toy shoved up there just saying he might like it but you must be proactive okay you want to do it too try to get in his world and make it explode

[michael1469]

You prolly need to step up your game...

[QuietRunner]

shemale porn is horrible

[Asker]

I totally agree I think porn leads to and cheating, because your desire to have what you see on the screen and when you look at home you’re disappointed.

[Anonymous]

fake account trying to make people gay