My husband dominates the bedroom?

Okay, I have NOOO problem with my husband taking control, I kinda like it. I just want to know, is this normal behavior for a man? I haven't ever slept with anyone but my husband... My husband never let's me on top unless were in his arm chair and I'm on his lap, but even then he grips my hips really hard, but in bed, he'll pin my arms to bed, so I can't really move them, and he'll grab me very hard. He never let's me on top, and the closest I get is when were laying on our sides and he's behind me, but that's not top. While he does these things, he's usually kissing me, either on the lips, neck, shoulder, or jaw, as if he's trying to sweeten what he does. Is this normal behavior for men in bed?
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  • Normal is what we do. There's no textbook for normal sex. If you want on top, ask him for it. Offer to give him that thing that you're not crazy about or are reluctant to do. Rock like you're riding a horse and just go crazy. When you cum, just keep going hard. After a few more orgasms, you'll hit The Big One and very likely squirt. I too am very dominant but I also make sure she gets everything she needs and most of what she wants and that she cums several times before I go nuts and empty myself into her, wherever I choose to do so. He owes you what you need. Does he spank you? If so, I have an idea.

    • He doesn't really spank me, no, I told him I didn't like it, so he doesn't do it

  • Your husband is a Dom, but it seems you want a bit of control too... if you want that, you've gotta push back. like when you are in bed, push him down, hold him down and Take control/ride him. if he tries to put hands on you, its easy to pin it behind him too and enjoy what you are doing. show him you want 50/50. he may not want it now because he think HE has to satisfy YOU, but when you do this, he will realize, YOU can get your own satisfaction off of HIM lol

    • Problem with that... he's 6"7 and muscular... I'm 4"11 and have never weighed more then 90 pounds... I think if he really wanted me under him... he could get me there lol

    • he could.. but men succumb.. which means we digress to women's touch. if he had you under and you pulled out and pushed him on this back, he'll obey. it will be amusing but he won't stop you... then you can ride him.. but if you turn him on too much.. he could flip it around and go back but u still get pleasure anyway...

    • Oh I see, I'll try it, and if it doesn't work... oh well. I'm all honesty I don't care that he keeps me under' but I just wanna TRY the top

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  • I can only presume that's how he likes it. You should tell him that you'd like to try the other way.

  • lol tell me the truth are you a little fat?

    • Nop, opposite, too thin, The most I've ever weighed was 89 pounds

  • 6"7and 4"11? Well that seems like normal sexual behavior to me. However do you ever bring up wanting to be on top or do you kind of just accept being on the bottom?

    • Usually I accept it, and I told him I kinda want to be on top, but don't really push it, cause I don't want that to be a regular thing, I just want to try

    • While you all are going at it just say let me ride you and see how he reacts. Then it till be understood that you want to ride him only when you ask. It shouldn't be a big deal. I know my gf doesn't ever ask to be on top but that's because she's lazy lol it's a lot of work apparently. I remember when she wasn't so good at first, but now when I'm tired she'll offer to ride me so I can take a break and she also loves to rub her clit on me. I guess to fully answer your question I would say that it's normal behavior for your husband because I'm the same way, but not all the time. It just depends on my mood.

    • Oh, well I'll try that, I'm pretty forgetful, so maybe I'll write it on my hand lol, But my husband never seems to get tired till after he's finished

  • I actually like the girl on top, better view and no need to stress out just pure joy ;)

  • I'm a dom as well. I assume it's normal for a guy to be that way. Do you want to be on top and is that why you are asking?

    • I like the bottom, but I just wanna try the top

    • Oh okay. Maybe just grab him one day and force him to the bottom

    • But he's way bigger then me lol... I won't be forcing him anywhere, trust me