My husband follows girls on YouTube why?

[Anonymous]

So my husband follows til too girls. Girls twerking. Girls showing their back end. Girls who are basically not me I’m not fat I have lost lots of weight. It hurts me bad I’m trying to not let it hurt me. But it does. We went through a stage last year of porn and he’s quit and now I feel like to get in the mood he has to look at this and I don’t understand it one bit. It’s like switching from one hav it to this. What’s the point why is he doing this. I’m just letting it go because we have got through our problems and it’s not worth the fight. But I don’t know or get why when he has me and we have sex all the time. It makes me feel ugly and everything just like last year all over again.

[RearEntryGuy]

Alright confession time: Us guys can be really vain and pain in the ass.

TBH, doesn't matter how sexh our wives are, doesn't matter how much sex we have, there is always a desire for visual satisfaction.

Yes, visual.

Just like we also have desires for good food, nice coffee, even great music and movies.

And I know. Not me also, him and many guys know, girls REALLY hate it.

Funny is, we guys felt sad and unromantic when we're forced to stop, or have to hide ourselves when we watched.

I'm not justifying. I'm suggesting, balance your emotional concerned with his frustration.

Sometimes, you invite him to watch the porn he likes with you has better outcome than him watching in secret.

As long as he doesn't cheat and after he got high, he will make love with you, then you should have a negotiation with him. This will strengthen your intimacy.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Because he probably likes the way they look and they’re attractive, he gets turned on?

[Asker]

Then why is he married to me? That’s what I don’t understand. Makes me not to even want to have sex or anything

[Asker]

We all know they are photo shopped and fake

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I can’t answer that. I would talk to him about it and tell him how it makes you feel.

[Asker]

Yeah we did last year I’m just not gonna bring it up this time. It hurts but I’m to the point whatever do what you want but it’s me whose gonna end up hurt yet again. But I do t know if he’s still looking or if follows prior so I’m just watching to see. Our relationships come a long way and I don’t want to ruin that. I know he loves me and wants me

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Well, it’ll just keep eating at ya if you don’t speak up hun ☹️ It’s best to come to him kindly and tell him that it upsets you because you’ve put in a lot of work to look good and lose weight. I’m sure he loves you and wants you, but he should treat you with respect

[Asker]

Thanks it may be old stuff so I’ll see what happens it’s on our fire tv he’s not hiding it so he may have forgotten about it completely also!! So will see what happens I’ll be ok

[Avicenna]

Only he knows

[rabbitzzz]

I guess you can join in.

[Asker]

Haha he makes sure I don’t see it. I just came across it

[rabbitzzz]

mxr plays

[Iron_Man]

Because he’s a playboy

[Asker]

Explain

[Iron_Man]

I don’t want to get to technical With the situation be he probably masturbate to the girls

[Asker]

Even if we have sex like every day

[Asker]

And we’re together all the time!!! I’m just saying sitting on the toilet doing that would be pretty uncomfortable if you ask me and we have a great marriage!! Last year he told me it was to get him I. The mood I do notice he’s hardly looking unless I’m on my cycle which then ok that makes complete sense.

[Iron_Man]

Why else would he look at a bunch of girls

[Iron_Man]

I’m pretty sure he does that other place not just the toilet

[Asker]

Not sure your probably right even though in reality we all know there photo shopped and they don’t look that amazing!! But I pay attention to signs and I don’t notice the signs I did last year so I think there old things on the account he hasn’t gotten rid of so will see if I notice him watching them and such! I will be paying attention! I’m sure he does it when he travels for work!!!

[Asker]

If your talking the shower. We shower together!

[Iron_Man]

I’m sorry to hear that you probably should raise hell with him so he can get his shit together

[Asker]

We’re a super happy couple. I just didn’t understand why they follow them. But about a year ago we were fighting bad so I’m sure that’s when that started and in 2018 I was gone for 6 months due to parents in hospital so I’m sure it’s tarted then. We have sex more now then we ever have. Which is nightly or every other night usually. We’re pretty happy ! So I don’t see him looking super descent so I think there old things he had followed from last year!! We have been together for two straight months

[Iron_Man]

I certainly wouldn’t want my wife doing that I would have a fit big-time

[Asker]

It’s up to him and god. He has to be honest with him. I already told him how I feel he said he was done I noticed a change so now I just gotta trust him and it’s all under him now

[Asker]

Well my mom was about to die. I had no choice. My dad same thing and he died. My husband was with me then I was at my moms but he was next door at our house so it was tough time. I was in a bad mood. But we are great now.

[Iron_Man]

But he hast to be held accountable right now he thinks he’s getting by with it

[Iron_Man]

I’m sorry to hear that

[Asker]

I haven’t seen him looking since we talked last they were just on their and it’s on our tv stick thing so I can see it if he was hiding it he would t have it on there

[Asker]

I went through and unsubscribes to them so I’m gonna see if they come back on!

[Iron_Man]

Good idea

[In_Trance]

Because that's what he likes to watch

[Asker]

Ok. But a little disrespectful

[Asker]

Why doesn’t he just go be with them then. And not me and his son if that’s whT he likes so much

[In_Trance]

smh... you need to chill. everyone looks. including you

[Asker]

Actually no I don’t. I don’t get online and look that’s not the type of person I am. When we started dating I was 100% him. I get that he looks he’s a man I know he won’t cheat I just wanted opinions on what people thought. Like I said I’m gonna drop it and not even worry about it but I was just wondering