Sexual Relationships
4 mo

My husband refuses to go down on me?

I am a very clean person, my hygiene is BEYOND up to par, he has never done it once, even after I made it clear I expect that during sex just like he expects it during sex , I've stopped doing it for him for the last 2 months or so because I am tired of doing it for him and not getting it in return, well today when we got out of the bath and were getting ready to have sex I asked him “when are you going to eat my 🐱?” He then said “I will soon.. “ I said “why not now?” And he said “let’s not talk about this right now your ruining the mood” ..

I don’t like to feel like I am making it a huge issue but my needs aren’t being met and we use the rose toy but it’s no where near the same thing, I've NEVER had issues with a man going down on me , in fact in previous relationships of mines they were doing it all the time just for their pleasure.. I can’t help but to feel rejected whenever I bring it up, but I am tired of my needs not being met.. what should I do? Any advice is helpful thank you

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  • Show him a video of a girl getting her pussy licked. He needs to be inspired. Show him how sexy it is.

    • Thanks for the MHO.

  • Tell him what fair is fair. If he wants you to do it so should he.

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  • If a chick is clean and not fat, there is usually no issue. Although there are some guys that refuse to do it no matter what. There are actually some chicks like that too. So, it could just you're dude's opinion about the act... and he hasn't shared that opinion with you.

  • Do not ever give him another bj until he returns the favor

  • Why did you even bother marrying him if he doesn't eat your kitty?

  • How did you get married and never have this conversation? We're missing something here.

  • Bigger fool you!

  • Why didn't you get this worked out before you married? Are you willing to stay married to him if he will never ever do it? Her sounds extremely selfish to me.

  • It's not a competition but you've turned it into one. If he won't go down on you, you won't blow him. That's pathetic. You pleasure your partner because it's the right thing to do, not because you get something in return. Maybe he won't do you because he knows you're just being selfish, and that is not what pleasuring your partner is all about.

    Do you two fuck? Maybe that's really what he wants to do.

    • I agree, honestly. Her attitude is part of the problem. You don't demand cunnilingus. Lol. You're supposed to seduce him into it.

  • Pretty messed up. I don't understand why this has just become an issue now. It should have been a non starter the first time you had sex and he didn't want to lick your pussy.

  • Both of you get on the bed and get into 69 position - He’ll have no choice because your vulva will be right in front of his face 👍🙂

  • That is a dealbreaker right there.

  • He obviously does not want to give you pleasure. Refuse to give him bjs until he does

  • What a chump. Tell him no more blows jobs until he learns how to eat the 😻 right

  • Uh... that's why you determine sexual incompatibility before you get married. You are currently doing the right thing.

  • Maybe he just doesn't like to? If so then not 'cumming clean' about it is an issue. Just ask him over breakfast, out of the blue since it won't be "ruining the mood" the morning after will it.

  • oh he is really stupid if i were him i sucked u all the day 😜💦💦✌️

    • ask him why u r not going down on me?

  • That's pretty selfish from him, I would never understand why anyone wouldn't enjoy doing it, simply because I do, but he can't expect you to give him head and not return it back.

  • That’s so weird, it’s one of

    the things I enjoy doing most

  • he is a fooll

    most pussys taste sweet

    I love licking pussy

  • What should you do?
    Well, first you shouldn't have married a man who refuses to sexually satisfy you.
    And second, you should come see me, I love to eat pussy, I could let you ride my face like a go cart for hours! Lol

  • Thays sad, he should lose his head betwen your legs many times a day, you sound truly delicious

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