Have you both ever discussed going a bit further in your sex life? If you have ever wanted him to be dominant in bed but not discussed hard/soft boundaries/limits and safe words then he's going with what popped up in his head. If he's dominant generally then he may like to humiliate sex wise (not all do). Either way you have to talk to him about this (and establish rules, safe words and boundaries/limits) because you're supposed to enjoy your sex life not be feeling bad or anything. If it's something you're not into then it's bound to freak you out a bit. I only know the above because my ex did similar to me. We had an argument because my sex drive was "too high" and he actually blindfolded and handcuffed me to the bed for 9 hours and he'd periodically make me suck him or he'd just fuck me, but then when he's finished he'd go and play Halo 2 (the console and sofa was near the bed) whilst leaving me there. The difference was, although I wasn't expecting it, he knew I'd like it. Tbh I was fuming and did thrash about a bit and called him a few choice words, plus it annoyed me more because I love Halo. Lol and he added half an hour for every time I talked back, struggled and didn't accept my punishment. I got my own back by getting out of the handcuffs but my point is, you definitely need to talk to your husband though! I hope you feel better and I hope it gets sorted. 🙂
thats great advice
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There is clearly an issue of consent here. He broke your trust and subjected you to humiliation, I personally can't suggest a way to move past that. His actions indicate something more about what is going on his head, for him to willingly do that to you.
Leave? If he's willing to abuse you like this, then who knows where he will stop.
You should talk to him about it since it shocked you. Tell him you didn't like it and it made you feel really bad afterwards. It might just be a kink to far he probably didn't even think of it as molesting or oral rape. He thought you would probably be turned on by being forced into such vulnerable position when its not your thing. If he does love you he will apologise and probably won't do it again unless suggest it later. Telling the cops is too soon at this point and probably will do more harm than good especially if he only saw it has ill thought foreplay. If he had hit it would be a different story guys tend to get impulsive around woman and do stupid stuff without considering it makes your woman feel.
I say talk to him first when you both had time to calm and process it all then have a serious conversation about where your boundries are and how much you didn't like what he did you.
You didn't have a safe word? He didn't stop when you wanted to? If you did want to stop and he didn't... you have bigger issues in your relationship, than feeling better about that.
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If you didn't consent to it, he raped you. Simple as that.
If someone did that to me, they'd have their dick bitten off.
If you're not into it, you gotta get out girl!
Who knows what he'll do next time.
Do the same to him
Aftercare is a major key in any dominating session
That's fucked up. Go to the police or talk to him?
You can chop both of your hands off so you can't post any more troll Qs like this...
Why would I be a troll? You know nothing about me and what I went through. I don't need people like you commenting. Get lost.
Right right. If he did this against your will go to the police, not gag. Troll.
Tie him to the bed and break his legs like in Misery
revenge sex get his ass back big-time!
Do the same with him, revenge sex.
What did you do wrong? What was this argument about?
My wife does that to me all the tie. She doesn't even wash her ass first either.
wow he is such a freak! has he ever done it before?
No first time in 2 years we've been married 😢
I feel sorry for you.. I mean, if you guys had freaky stuff like this before, this could be acceptable. but now this is weird
I don't believe this story for a second.
You did your duty as a wife.
This is not a basement dweller. This absolutely happened. The pink anon is definitely not a fat guy on his computer in his parents basement.
I agree but what makes you so adamant?
@SuccessfulHornDog she's never done this before and feels "bad" about being forcibly tied up and someones asshole stuck in her face... help her feel better... not the words of someone undergoing such an experience
That sounds hot I love giving my guy a rim job
How did you please him with your nose?
Soak your head in a sink full of holy water for 5 intervals of 30 seconds each. Say "Praise God!" each time you raise up your head! That should take care of it!
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