My husband want to be a porn star?

[Anonymous]

My husband used to make some videos before he meet me.
He was used to hangout with strippers, prostitutes, and junkies, because he used to sell drugs a long time ago, so he was totally the opposite of what I am, I come from a normal, good family, always treating myself with respect, I know about values, moral, and I consider myself a well educated, normal girl. Since we got married my husband was neglecting me, sexually, he told me that sex is made for reproduction, not for other things, but at the same time, he told me about this sex life, how he did threesomes, orgies, and how he even sleep with his best friends mom, he used to love sex, I even saw some of his old chats and he used to like to have sex, with those girls, but with me, he just is not into it, he told me that I was “sexually basic” that my body was “skinny” and my self esteem just went down, he is into public sex, and things like that, and I’m not into that. Now he want to leak his old sex tape, with one of his ex girlfriends, he is obsessed with being “famous”, but I feel like is going to be a humiliation for me, and our daughter, he is angry because I don’t support him, but I just can’t.
He play that video over, and over and over, and I don’t know how to feel about anything. He had cheated on me, multiple times, but this is different this is public humiliation

[UniquelyBasic]

So he neglects you sexually, belittles you and doesn't care for what you have to say or think? doesn't sound like a relationship but it says you have a daughter so you should try to make it work for her sake. If you just can't make it work then leave him but dont push him out of his daughters life if he still wants to see her.

[Asker]

My daughter is going to grow up with the idea of being a Porn star, is a NO. I don’t want that man close to her, is this a Gringo thing? I’m a Latina, and I don’t understand this culture still. I was raise different.

[DeepPassionateLover]

I think it sounds like he has a number of issues he is trying to hide, consciously or not. Have you tried couples counciling or therapy?

[DonkeyDan]

Wow, he soinds like a charming character, not. Think rather than support him or not, you should probably be divorcing him and getting him out of your life for good.

[AwesomeCookie]

Sounds like he has kinks you're not into.. prob why he doesn't have a sexual drive towards you.

[Asker]

Yes!! I think so too, but is kinda unfair because he don’t want to get a divorce, so I don’t know. I felt like he want me to witness everything, and I don’t want that humiliation, we have a daughter too, I don’t want her to think that being a porn star is the ultimate goal in life. I’m sorry for my writing, just to clarify. English is not my first language.

[Aurora1010]

He seems like a a--hole. I would have left him if I was you, he doesn't seem to respect you.

[Drumlin2001]

He just wants to release old video or wants to record new ones?

[Asker]

He want to release an old one, and make more with his ex girlfriend. I’m sorry for my writing, English is not my first language.

[MysteriousDarkness]

1. He has cheated on you multiple times.
2. He doesn't care what you have to say.
3. He doesn't care how his actions might affect you and your daughter.
4. He doesn't have sex with you.

Doesn't sound good to me.

[Caliguy88]

I’d never want old sex pics and videos leaked and I’d never want to have a current lover see them….

[gangs_and_guns]

Just be smarkxt

[Asker]

How?

[gangs_and_guns]

Next time he will try to make sex tape with u

[Asker]

One time I told him, just to see what he will tell me, and he told me “I’m not into that with you”

[gangs_and_guns]

Can u text me?

[ThebestIndian]

Do not support him.

[Anonymous]

Me too!

[Anonymous]

Why not make new sex tapes with him and wear mascarade masks? You get to have more sex with him; he gets to try his hat at being a pornstar, and you keep your anonymity.

[Anonymous]

You English is fucked up beyond belief.