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My husbands ex just texted me their sex tapes?

So my husband had an ex for over 10 years who is extremely toxic.

today she sent me a bunch of their sex tapes. I clicked on before realising what it was and watched about a minute.

I told him we should call the police to which he is refusing. And just told me to block her and delete them which I did.

But now the images that I’ve seen of him fucking her in our bed are just stuck in my head and it has really left me shaken up.

I know I shouldn’t let it get to me because then she wins but also seeing your man fuck another woman is extremely hard. Please someone give me advice. Am I wrong to be shaken up?

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  • No you aren’t wrong at all, that has to be hard as hell to deal with , I would feel the same way if I saw my partner having sex with another
    Guy on video , It so would not sit well with me either , But you did the right thing by deleting them and understanding that was your husband before you were part of his life , you basically didn’t know each other then , it was his past just like you have a past , his ex sounds like a wack job to be honest by sending those videos to you , she is clearly not over your husband , if she had the opportunity again to fuck him , she would take the opportunity for sure , , you are best to block her and tell your husband to block her as
    Well if he wants to continue to be in a relationship with you , if he does t block her then that just goes to show he doesn’t truly value you he only values himself , If there is no kids involved then she shouldn’t be any part of your relationship with your husband , what so ever , so block her ass and tell him to do the same

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  • One of the many benefits of me refusing any woman who's not a virgin, is I don't have to deal with bullshit from toxic exes.

    I hate prudes, but at the same time, I kind of miss the days where sex before marriage and things like divorce were taboo, because it meant less women my age were humped and dumped by guys.

    The "pool" of clean, single, never married, childless women who are still able to fall completely in love, feels more like a thimble's worth these days... They are all too busy humping jerks and then complaining about them after the fact, instead of being selective about character and waiting for an actual perfect match.


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  • That’s completely bogus on her part. You’re right that she wins if you’re upset by this. Don’t give it to her. You can’t control what other people do but you can control how you react to it. That’s where your power is. I’d message her right back and tell her I enjoyed her videos but now I understand why he’s with me. Hell, I might even offer to recommend a good cosmetic surgeon to her so she might hold onto her next man. I’m ornery like that. Lol

  • Send yours haha, she’ll turn crazy. Joking :)

    That was their bed long before he knew any existence of you. So get over. I have the sex tape with my ex as well, but I have the only copy and I have not seen it ever since we taped it and don’t plan to see it. I had him when I had him and that’s totally enough.

    His new partner will never have a 22-26 year old hulk I had 😋

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  • Move to another place. This way, your new bedroom becomes YOUR new bedroom with any history of her.

  • Damn that's so fucked up but sounds to me like she still has feelings for him, you can choose to be mature about it and do what your husband says and just delete and block, I'm sure he ducks you better anyways, who he wifed up tho huh? Clearly her pussy was all she had to offer and look where it got her, you got his ring, you got his heart and you'll have his baby, you tell me who's really winning here lol

    • Fucks not ducks lol

  • It's okay to be shaken up and your husband is correct in doing nothing more with them. Don't turn them into a big thing, they're not. Remember that's in the past, you have him now, and he likes it that way. Think of the present and the future. The hurt will eventually go away... give it time.

  • I am very sorry that you're going through this but you need to pull yourself together. The first thing you need to tell yourself is that, you did not know your husband at that time and he had love life before he met you, second, their a reason that they broke up, three, remember why he married you, and four, substitute negative image with positive images, meaning with you and your husband.

  • You forgot to share back.

  • Read the book "SEX AT DAWN" by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan

    Your "jealousy and envy" issues will be long gone after you finish the book

    • I mean hardly jealous he is mine but just hard seeing what I’ve seen

    • No @vikingwarlord is right. If you weren't jealous you wouldn't care. If some guy sends me videos from when he was doing it with my woman before me I'd just try to take pointers and see if he's doing anything I'm not that really does it for her, then make it a point to get better at it than he was. I know going into it she's had sex before me.

  • What a crazy ex. You should talk to your husband about it, but it sounds like this is a her problem (not you) and your husband doesn’t seem to have anything lingering for his ex.

  • Dependin on u, u can feel bad naturally. Give it time n you'll forget about it.

  • Just delete them, block her and move on. She is obviously an evil individual that can’t seem to let go.

  • She is trying to play with you and you are letting her play
    It's a win win situation for her

  • It was before you... drop it

  • My ex did this. She applauds my improved technique and staying power.

  • No. I can understand how you’d feel. I mean if a dude send a man videos of his current girlfriend getting her back blown out or swallowing his cum or a number of sexual things, he’d most likely feel the same. I’d suggest getting rid of that bed first of all. Maybe seeking some sort of counseling by yourself, then maybe together if need be. The girl who told you to get over it had never been in your situation so easy for her to say something like that.

  • In your bed? For real you didn't make him at least buy a new mattress?

    • Well those videos are from before we met. And he is very attached to his things

    • Blink twice if you're in some sort of danger. Jesus buy a new mattress and just burn the old one. And remodel the bedroom

    • @Opinion Owner I mean yeah I agree that matress is gross... but so is humping a used crotch..

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