My Journey Into a Female Dominated Relationship

My story:

I was a loving housewife, we had been married for 3 years. We had 3 kids and one day my husband left his tablet unlocked on the kitchen table.

My Journey Into a Female Dominated Relationship

I did it, glanced at his browser history and there was porn. DISCLAIMER: I know guys look at porn, but this was sick stuff. His main site was one that I won’t name but it has the word “domocracy” in the title. There was torture and killing, exchange of nasty fluids, sick crap. I was like, my God, is this what he’s into?!!!! F***.

My Journey Into a Female Dominated Relationship

I was crying ready to leave him, pack up the kids and go to moms f’ this guy. And I went online for advice and found this site. I posted the question “my husband's into sick porn” hoping for some advice. And I got lots. But I was also pissed.

I thought about it, and thought about it for a few days. I came up with a solution. I sat him down and confronted him. I gave him 3 choices

1. Leave, and never come back - kind of what I was wanted.

2. Give up the porn, not just the sick stuff but all porn. Many of you guys don’t seem to get this but it’s exploitive, hurtful and kills the self esteem of your partner.

3. Or we’ll do it his way. I will try being a Dominant woman.

He had a week to decide. I then took the kids to my moms house and ignored him for that week.

Meanwhile I read a little online, read some forums, made a plan. I knew he wouldn’t leave. After the week I met him for coffee. He begged, I held firm, he picked number three. I sent an email to him from my phone, one I’d written earlier. This is what it said in essence, I think you are a sick twisted man, but we’ll try this. You will provide me with $5,000.00 cash, I don’t care how the F you get it, beg, borrow, or steal. You will complete an online BDSM quiz, that will establish your hard limits, anything else goes. This is going to last one year, if you back out, try and change the terms, or F with me you leave, no middle ground. I’m in control here, don’t forget it. I’ll move back home when you have completed these two tasks.

My Journey Into a Female Dominated Relationship

That was just over two years ago. I have a house slave now, he cooks, cleans, and is totally attentive to me.

He’s locked in chastity, with a remote shock device on his cock.

My Journey Into a Female Dominated Relationship

I let him out if I want him, but that’s becoming rarer and rarer. I have been thinking of dating, casually outside of the relationship for more fulfilling sex.

Is he happy? I think so, he’s certainly eager.

Am I happy? Not really, bored is a better word but he’s good with the kids, and he’ll never leave.

What’s the worst thing I’ve ever done to him? I caught him on a porn site, I hate him looking at porn, so I locked his cock into a spiked cage, put on a playlist of BDSM porn, and tied him up watching it while I went to an impromptu night out with the girls. He was sore for days, and learned his lesson.

My Journey Into a Female Dominated Relationship

Advice to young ladies who are in the same boat? F’em, beat the crap out of him, and learn to love it.

Ciao.

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  • ... See, I'm not into... abuse... so I woulda just left him. I mean, a swift kick in the ass is one thing but I'm not into this weird, fetishy "pay me money while I torture your cock" stuff.

  • why did my friend tell me to read this ugh

  • Disgusted, then cruel in judgement, then controlling anyway (what's with the $5000?), force him to set a few limits, then he's out if the fantasy other than how YOU decide to act it out? Oh, and the stock photos of the cages, not photos of the one they own. Lastly, if you are so bored, then why end with advising other women to be dominant?

    Either:
    A) this woman has a fantasy she is trying to build courage to propose to her man, and likely leave him if he refuses...
    B) anonymous, means dude. Fake post, from a dude, scared to ask for this.

    Either way, fake. Someone looking for consolation they aren't a freak, or monster, depending in the gender. Answer, if both people consent, nothing's TOO strange, at least to them. Hiding this shit from your partner, likely only to have it manifest As cheating, or getting caught in bad light, is wrong.

  • Dear Penthouse Letters...

  • Honestly, I don't know what I was expecting when I clicked on this...

    I don't know what the fuck to say.

  • you are as psycho as him. omg poor kids in what hands of parents you have fallen. no wonder society goes to shit storm day by day... .

  • Let me guess, Literotica turned this crap down, so you've inflicted it on us, right?

    (Slow clap) 🙄

    • 😂😂

  • Sounds like you are just as sick as you think he is, you are a perfect match. Stop fooling yourself, you are loving this. Because if you did not, you sure as hell would not be living as you are.

  • What the actual

  • This started as Twilight fan fiction.

  • This is… interesting. But please… try to calm down.

  • Even as someone who is into orgasm denial your behavior sounds quite extreme and to be missing the most vital components of BDSM play. Communication and Love.

    This whole thing sounds more like an act of revenge then something you enjoy together and i think you massively overreacted on the porn since if a guy has extreme fantasy's it doesn't mean he was different from how you know him.

    Should you continue with this? Probably, because if he wasn't enjoying this he would have complained more but you NEED to communicate with him and keep giving him love and affection during the process or you may not know the damage you are causing.

    Because you put extreme stakes with not just a ton of money but also his kids and family i am affraid your actually torturing the guy and because of the high stakes he is to affraid to speak his mind.

    So make sure to listen to his wishes, talk about what works and what doesn't work and show him you love him. If you do not do this and still continue with what you are doing it would make you a very evil person.

    So i hope i misjudged and the communication is there, but chastity, electronicplay and cuckolding especially are not fetishes people typically pick and also ones that can be very traumatising.

    So do the right thing and talk, but also forgive him for the porn you didn't like or you will keep justifying being evil.

  • Im.. speechless.
    Torn between roasting the fuck out of you or just pointing out the obvious BS of this Take.

    • Ain't. Get out a little more.

    • @Ahsthen learn a little more.

    • Reading some of the comments in this topic will school you. But if you want, you can come out here and I'll take you to some spots and show you round some people. That'll learn ya.

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  • Ummmm is this serious? If so, fellow psycho... I've made it clear to my boyfriend no porn and he's complied. But you're going wasaaay too far. Don't you think?

  • My gosh. I am only wondering how come you ended up being a dominatrix so fast...

  • Well uh... 11/10 great story, 1/10 for actions taken.

  • Wow. You know, I'm usually in agreement with gals like you. I don't like my men looking at porn either but dude... this is some self-righteous shit you are posting. You really believe him being into nasty porn merits you making him a slave to you? You are not into equality or respect, you just want to get back at him for something you have low self-esteem over. I think you're the one who needs some therapy. Come again, girl.

  • I wouldn't be surprised if @CT_CD wrote this, but went anonymous. Lmao!

    • I wrote this

    • @CT_CD I don't not believe you. Have a good day!

    • You too

  • Dump him you don't need him

  • I am also dominant, I like tying my fiance up and fuck his ass with my strapon. I also whip and spank his ass

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