My Journey Into a Female Dominated Relationship

[Anonymous]

My story:

I was a loving housewife, we had been married for 3 years. We had 3 kids and one day my husband left his tablet unlocked on the kitchen table.

I did it, glanced at his browser history and there was porn. DISCLAIMER: I know guys look at porn, but this was sick stuff. His main site was one that I won’t name but it has the word “domocracy” in the title. There was torture and killing, exchange of nasty fluids, sick crap. I was like, my God, is this what he’s into?!!!! F***.

I was crying ready to leave him, pack up the kids and go to moms f’ this guy. And I went online for advice and found this site. I posted the question “my husband's into sick porn” hoping for some advice. And I got lots. But I was also pissed.

I thought about it, and thought about it for a few days. I came up with a solution. I sat him down and confronted him. I gave him 3 choices

1. Leave, and never come back - kind of what I was wanted.

2. Give up the porn, not just the sick stuff but all porn. Many of you guys don’t seem to get this but it’s exploitive, hurtful and kills the self esteem of your partner.

3. Or we’ll do it his way. I will try being a Dominant woman.

He had a week to decide. I then took the kids to my moms house and ignored him for that week.

Meanwhile I read a little online, read some forums, made a plan. I knew he wouldn’t leave. After the week I met him for coffee. He begged, I held firm, he picked number three. I sent an email to him from my phone, one I’d written earlier. This is what it said in essence, I think you are a sick twisted man, but we’ll try this. You will provide me with $5,000.00 cash, I don’t care how the F you get it, beg, borrow, or steal. You will complete an online BDSM quiz, that will establish your hard limits, anything else goes. This is going to last one year, if you back out, try and change the terms, or F with me you leave, no middle ground. I’m in control here, don’t forget it. I’ll move back home when you have completed these two tasks.

That was just over two years ago. I have a house slave now, he cooks, cleans, and is totally attentive to me.

He’s locked in chastity, with a remote shock device on his cock.

I let him out if I want him, but that’s becoming rarer and rarer. I have been thinking of dating, casually outside of the relationship for more fulfilling sex.

Is he happy? I think so, he’s certainly eager.

Am I happy? Not really, bored is a better word but he’s good with the kids, and he’ll never leave.

What’s the worst thing I’ve ever done to him? I caught him on a porn site, I hate him looking at porn, so I locked his cock into a spiked cage, put on a playlist of BDSM porn, and tied him up watching it while I went to an impromptu night out with the girls. He was sore for days, and learned his lesson.

Advice to young ladies who are in the same boat? F’em, beat the crap out of him, and learn to love it.

Ciao.

[dizmuhjam]

This is soooo bullshit 😂😂😂
Its not even a well written fake story hahahaha..

'So I gave him 3 choices:
1. Something you WOULD'NT like and fantasize about
2. Something you WOULD'NT like and fantasize about
3. Something you DO like and watched porn of and fantasized about
anyways, now becomes reality.'

HMMMMMMMMM 😂😂😂 WHAT A TOUGH CHOICE!!!
Do I want her to divorce me and leave, or do I want her to fullfill my fantasies? Do I want her to give me what I like or do I want her to give me what I dont like? 😂 What a hard choice!!! I neeed a whole week to make a decision!!!

[dizmuhjam]

@wittymilf seriously look at this garbage 😂What do you think?

[Avallach]

Nice provocation, I even thought to get angry for no reason because of solidarity or some shit but nah, have a good day, madam

[ellesnow21]

Feel like it's a guy writing this posing as a woman. All in all the story is fake.

[bubble_tea]

I believe you. 🙄

[effyourfeelings]

This is obviously a made up, bullshit story
I'd like a submissive man one day and I'll be the dominant one in the relationship, but I wouldn't take it that far
But putting a belt or remote shock device on my man isn't my thing

[Ahsthen]

Not. Fifty shades is the wannabe portrayal of real life for some. I've met them, been to the dungeon. seen 'em wear collars in public. Yes, in the States.

[SirRexington]

What. In. The. Fuck... Was this post?

[Political_dude]

Your story is sick as the porn he used to watch.

[Iwasthinking]

Shock device? slave? sounds unbeliavable... are you saying the truth?

[JessForAdvice]

I’ve gone on a few online chat groups and liked to dominate old men.
It’s weird cause I’m fantasies I always like to be dominated and controlled but for some reason I liked the idea of doing it to those men. On cam too!

[Ripper_E]

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[N23SA]

woww

[ManwithaConran]

Good luck with your attempts to find a new partner. I can imagine the first date... "So, why are you single?" "I tortured my ex by putting a spiked cage on his genitals - or a remote shock device when I go out. And I extorted money from him. He's a complete shell of a man now, so I need to find someone new... hey... where are you going?"

Don't go out with any police officers, I have a funny feeling they'll want the 2nd date to be at a police station.

[name_is_christian]

So you turn what absolutely disgusted you and you turned around and became like that site? I call it questionable and you two need help from a licensed marriage therapist.

[Chaoseverywhere]

Not really into it, maybe kinda, no. Nice?

[Nik1hil]

The concept of BDSM say, if you bond with someone,
the Submissive devotes to The Dominant and the Dominant stays faithful and fully devoted to submissive..
if you cheat on him
"I let him out if I want him, but that’s becoming rarer and rarer. I have been thinking of dating, casually outside of the relationship for more fulfilling sex."\
then he is going to rebound, unless he is a cuck..
and that rebound will be bad..

but i feel sad for you.
you want a guy who nails you to the walls and steals all that sugar on your lips,
spoils those lipstick and makes sure that mascara always stays perfect..

keep trying this but tell him.
that you want to be dominated to.. keep changing roles it will be interesting..

[Browneye57]

Nice marriage ya got there. :(

[beebella]

Cool story, bro.

[Volvagia]

lmao

[thatguyfromtoronto]

Lady, no offense but that is FUCKED UP! For you to be extremely upset with him that he looks at porn and now you state, "I want to date other people and make him my slave" just proves to me you don't care about being in a loving relationship and it will damage your kids psychologically in the future of how to treat their spouse. WE ARE NO ONE'S SLAVE, why couldn't you have been a better person, divorce him, get child custody with the proof you had and move on with your life.

Enslaving him proves to me that you can't move on with your life because you are still tied to that very moment you caught him. It's like if someone stole something from a store, should that person constantly be punished? Or get some jail time and pay a fine and learn from his or her mistakes? The second option seems likely scenario. No offense but I think you are both fucked in the head.

Would you want something jammed into your vagina hole and you could only pee or have intercourse unless your tells you? I get that you want to be in charge and you are sick of him as a person but then why stay with him? Because he's clearly a spineless man who's just a bitch and I guess you like that, I guess being a dominatrix is something embedded in your DNA.

[LivinLegend]

I really don't understand how some beta cucks really enjoy having collars and other weird pussy shit done to them or on them.

How tf could you call yourself a man if you into this bs