My Life As a Purple Pill Ladies Man

My Life As a Purple Pill Ladies Man

Red Pill=Avoiding relations with women out of awareness of female nature

Purple Pill= Aware of female nature yet plan accordingly and maintain relationships

Blue Pill= Being clueless about female hypergamous and manipulative nature

It's Friday night and I am on a second date. She's 27 years old and works part time as a teaching assistant but is jobless over the summer. I am a successful man and meet her for drinks. We have a good 2 hour conversation. She had time to change into a nice blouse after protesting BLM for several hours during the day. I pay all of the tab. I oppose this but know she's not working. I have a good salary and a good job so whatever. We walk outside in the chilly wind and all of a sudden her tongue is in my mouth. We make out.

Next day I drive 2 hours north to see my female best friend from college. We've known each other 10 years. She just dumped her boyfriend after a year of him not having a job and using her. I arrive and she tells me she stopped taking birth control. We go on a walk in the woods and then have dinner together. I get a call from my Fuck Buddy. She had cut things off wanting to find her "purpose". But now she is asking me to have sex again. I tell her im busy. She comments on how girls are checking me out. Then she says, "What's the difference between this and a date? None right?" I go to her apartment and she says I can stay the night. We smoke a few hits of weed and then I am out. Sleeping. I disappointed her hormones. I do recall her tell me her vagina angles slightly right. I commented on my erection. Then I was asleep.

Its Monday, my Fuck Buddy calls me again. Offers to give me a massage. I pay for a massage and thank her. Before I walk out she says that she knows she cut things off but she wants to have sex. So i take her to my place. She says, "I know that I say no. But I really mean yes. Do you know what I mean?" I tell her I dont. Because what she is saying is idiotic.

Whatever. Authenticity is hard to find.

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  • Red pill. Thinks seriously, rationally and logically. Fact based.
    Blue pill. Emotes based on whatever nonsense comes their way. Incapable of reason and logic. Indifferent to objective facts. Lives in a world of feelings.
    What are you? Patronizing them for a steady supply of pussy. A player. Corrupt.

    • Yeah there isn't a such animal as purple pill.

  • Not a bad life dude. Hope you find your princess eventually.

  • that's life bro, you end up with a bunch of girls you don't see a future with, but you want a future

  • First of all that is not ok. , this is definitely not how you treat women at all.
    And I don’t think you know what respect is
    Considering you have fuck buddy like what the fuck

  • so basically you're a fence sitter who wants to the best of both worlds. I got news for you buddy that isn't happening because you're either in or out of the matrix.

    • I am not a fence sitter. I am the debate. Thats why I get so much vitriol. The best way to describe me is Atlas. I have the whole world my shoulders. Everyone has their own ideas about the world and what is right and wrong. And I am sitting her burden with carrying the weight of all sides to the table so they can have an open discussion.

    • Well that’s not how the matrix works. You either take the blue pill and continue living in limbo or you take the red pill and become exposed to the truth. You really cannot be in and out of it whenever you feel like it

  • Wait, hold up! Is this whats it's like for you? Holy shit, lol. Teach me your ways lol 😂.

    • Read my mytakes and PM for any specific questions you might have.

    • Will gladly do

  • Wel damn, are u ok? U seem like u have given up abit.

  • Great story, really. And way to condense it. It was artful. Towards the end I find your disappointment. It’s you. You’re unconscious of your authenticity, and so therefore you do not attract it. Sounds like you have the game intact, but you are not screening the women. Or you’re not getting enough variety in the funnel. So I encourage you to expand there. Establish you values, desires, goals, and purpose, and choose the one that fits right in.

    • I find that most people reading this think its a story of sexual conquest. Its not. Its a story of how women treat men. First paragraph she is having me pay for the whole date. Second paragraph my best friend is making insinuations about dating her and has me spend the night without actually backing it up. And in the third paragraph you have the fuck buddy girl who never wanted to have sex telling me that 'no means yes'.

    • Oh, but they always will treat us such because they are designed for it. But, you can’t blame them. It’s why we as men have to have a strong sense of awareness on our framework, and be well poised, and postured. All women will follow a man of strength, with whom she feels the attraction to, so it’s our job to lead the interactions, and to know where to take them. And it sounds like your disappointed with your giving. If your not happy with the lack of reciprocity, first stop doing it. You’re allowing the behavior to continue. They simply see that you “leave the door wide open”. First paragraph - you can tell a women to buy you dinner. It doesn’t sound romantic, I know, but a woman who is following your lead will do it. But then, are you a jerk, and never reciprocate? Well that kind of thing just builds more attraction. Just know that you kill attraction when you do it every time - because you are compensating for what you (consciously, or subconsciously) believe you lack in. Second paragraph - are you jealous about it? That’s natural. But you have to be “so what” about it. Have strong emotional IQ framework. If it’s not okay with you, that’s when you have to stop entertaining the idea. And third paragraph - she was simply testing you. You passed with “flying colors”, and it simply turned her on even more. You’re not understanding women’s psychology. Get into it. If you love women you will use it to their, and your advantage, because remember this if all else fails. Women love to follow a “strong man”.

    • I like your responses bro. You are intellectual and eloquent. Couple things to note. You took this as complaints. Im not complaining. I actually had a lot of fun! This is a reflective piece in observing womens behavior. Girl in first paragraph: i have a third date soon. Girl in 2nd paragraph: She will drive 2 hours to my place next weekend to hangout. A best friend. Girl in 3rd Paragraph: Still my fuck buddy when we get horny.

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  • Just don't admit it. RedPill all they way, man. ;)

  • Good to know, I guess.

    It’s weird seeing guys call themselves ladies men when they have this lifestyle. Women have this lifestyle too except with men.

    But instead of calling ourselves “gentlemen woman” (female version of ladies man) we just see it as the average daily life.

    • I am fully aware that it is pretentious. I add catchy titles of clickbait. I openly admit it. As for your comment about having several options being normal to women. Yes. you are exactly right. Fellas should know... she's not yours, its just your turn. She's always got options floating around to ditch you.

    • I see it somewhat differently though. To my knowledge, MOST women do not actually have this lifestyle because it’s not something that they naturally crave or gravitate towards unlike men. So, if you look at official statistics/numbers on this, you’ll find that men have a much higher average of sexual partners than women do AND report finding casual sex more desirable than women do. So, it doesn’t appear that women, as a whole, find this lifestyle as pleasant nor do the whole partake in it.

    • @Apope16 I’d agree, but I’d like to add as well. While women know they have “options floating around,” they’re also not dumb. Women know these “options floating around” just want to use them for a night or two and then move onto the next woman. It’s an odd place to be because while you have options, you 1. Know they only see you as a material/object and 2. Probably don’t even find any of them attractive, admirable, righteous, honest, etc. These options aren’t the 10% of men in other words. They’re the average Joe on his 18th shot at the bar after work...

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  • lol these rainbow pill shits act like women are all manipulative dumbshits with no personality. it's genuinly entertaining

    • yah... I saw you're from the Philippines... you have any idea why men either marry a filipino woman nowadays or move there? Wake up xD Not saying all women are bad, but yah, many bad ones definitely exist. I don't think so many dudes were as interested in Filipino women back in the 1800s as they are today and damn it says everything LOL

    • @errorgoodnameunfound Damn, while reading your comment I expected it to be from a 14 year old... But no, something worse. Also, of course plenty of men weren't interested in Filipino women. (Here's a little hint, racism.) And why do you assume I live in the Philippines? I'm using a VPN, dipshit. I know that plenty of women suck, but there's also men who suck equally. I believe one of the dipshits of the genders are you. You barely literate pussyfart.

    • *correction to my vpn thing. I just picked a country by random

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  • I really don't see the message you are trying to share with this take. Every single time you talk about women is like you are diminishing them to feel superior somehow. What's the point of your stories? I feel you are performing a character and not helping people with your words.
    It's sad, really. You are not a high value man. You are just sad.

    • @Asker No offense but it really is kind of sad lol /: you should work on yourself and focus on your wellbeing instead of being too absorbed in women

    • He probably didn’t mean to sound this way but... yeah

    • @elisa_0 This is not his only mytake which comes across as a lack of topic and attack. I'm not a feminist but I can recognize someone who wants to diminish our kind. He sees us as a product and have all kinds of rules for us, like we were some kind of robots or gold diggers.

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  • Where's the purple pill part? Have I missed it?

  • I guess you could call me Purple Pill too. I guess that makes more sense than "happily married MGTOW". I like the sound of the latter more, though. My wife is Latina. Before I met her I dated but never had a girlfriend, stayed a virgin, quite voluntarily. I'd never heard of MGTOW or Red Pill until after I was married, but I realized that these ideologies matched the way I already thought.

    Honestly, sleeping around is dangerous, both for men and women, but that's your life, I guess.

    I don't like dismissing toxic behavior as "female nature". I think people have free will, and that includes women. You can't respect someone and not hold them responsible for their behavior.

  • Purple is the color of the gay community.

    • Or royalty.

    • You do realize that the pride flag is rainbow right?

  • How you manage to talk this way and discredit women... I have no idea, If you think about it this isn't about them. Its really about you and getting what you want.

    Then again this is all a publicity stunt and showing everyone on here how your "The man" when really you ain't nothing but a phoney thinking your so much superior. A compliment to you is like the whole universe is in your lap, try letting your ego go from time to time and empathise.

    • He's the man behind a computer. Who knows what's he really is in real life. The way he talks about women makes me think he hates them.

    • @Desconhecida just blunt snd critical. If i hates women i wouldn't have close female friends and multiple friends with benefits or dating options. Whats funny is i have only commented on societal dating. I am actually politically a feminist. Womens rights, equal pay, female philosophy, gay rights. I support all those things. :)

    • @Apope16 I'm not being critical, I'm giving my opinion.

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  • This reads more like the diary of a narcissist 😂

    • Probably the case

  • Pink pill = avoid men who are losers

    • SERIOUSLY

    • lol 😂

    • @happy_77 How many single-mothers could use a "pink pill". This pill might save women from their really awful decision making in who they allow to impregnate them.

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  • Shrooms? :D

  • Purple Pill according to Rollo Tomassi (The Rational Male)

    In the community, The Purple Pill is a euphemism for men who’ve become Red Pill aware, but for a variety of insecurities have decided to temper the uncomfortable truths of that awareness with their previous Blue Pill hopes. The harsh, ugly truths that the nature of women, the nature of Hypergamy and the natural selection process of intersexual dynamics presents to these guys becomes too much to bear. It’s all encompassing; when a man begins to see his surroundings with a Red Pill lens the difficult truth needs for an optimistic solution to counter what would otherwise be nihilism.

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