My little sis asked me sexual questions should I answer them or tell mom?

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  • I well you're 18 to 24 so its not like your totally uninformed, I would answer them the best you could. I mean you know how you were raised and what your mother would say better than me. Your sister is obviously coming to you because she trusts you and if you go to mom then you might lose that trust. Plus, she probably believes you will tell her the real truth since your obviously closer in age to her than her mother.

    I would not tell her anything that you think might get you in trouble with your mother, but I would answer her as honestly as I could. For the question you do not feel comfortable answering I would tell her that she needs ask mom about.

    I would not go to my mother about my sister unless its something you really think mom needs to know, because if you betray that trust next time your sister will not come to you at all and that could be way worse for her.

Most Helpful Guy

  • She's asking YOU because she expects (a) you can keep her confidences. She TRUSTS you;
    (b) unless you're an asshole, you'll give her straight, insightful answers---

    In many of the Pacific Island nations NOT wallowing in Christian hypocrisy,
    families live in 'long houses' where sex ed. talks occur early (pre age 7) and its tacitly
    understood 'touchy-feely' exploration WILL occur privately WITHOUT VAGINAL INTERCOURSE,
    even among siblings. (Make Orgasms, NOT babies!)

    Read Maxwell Freedom Long's social studies of the culture of the native Hawaiian elder's communities~

Most Helpful Girls

  • Tell her what you know, ensuring that it is absolutely correct and truthful. If you don’t know then you can help her ask your parents.

  • i asked my sister questions all the time i would never ask my mom

    • Y is That?

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  • Tell your Mother.

    • Ok. .

  • Why not answer? She looks up to you and trusts you to be honest. She needs someone she can count on. Better she gets info from you than from some less reliable source.

    Be a good big sister, mentor and confidant. Give her truthful guidance and don't betray her trust. She's old enough.

    It's awkward asking parents about sex stuff. If you help her through this awkward time in her life, she'll look up to you forever.

  • How old is your little sister and what kind of questions is she asking?

    • 13 and how to perform oral on a guy

    • Yes, you need to discuss that with your mother.

  • Okay first of all she's your sister second of all she's asking you a serious question because she can't go to anybody else and she trust and respect you if you go to your mom you're going to lose that trust or respect from her you need to be able to have your sister come to you and talk to you about anyting there's a bond there that you guys share and that's called trust and respect you need to keep a hold of that that way you know everything that she's doing because she's going to come to you and talk to you about it don't do that

  • For starters it’s wonderful that your little sister feels comfortable coming to you & if you are able to answer her questions you should if you feel comfortable doing so. On the flip side if you are unable to answer her questions or you don’t feel comfortable answer them you should have her talk to mom.

  • Answer them. Your an adult, and she doesn't want to ask your mother.

    • Okay.

  • Amswer it ofcourse! Your her older sister she looks up to!

  • Well, depends on her age, if she is too young then tell mom.

  • If you know the answers, tell her. If you're too embarrassed to talk about it with her, tell mom it's time for "the talk".

  • Depends on the question and her age.

  • You're not obligated to answer it, but don't go snitching on her. That's not nice

  • Tell her to ask Mom. And then if she doesn't ask Mom, then tell Mom. But give her a chance to go to Mom on her own first.

  • What are the questions?

  • Don't be a fink, and give your sister the best advice you can.

  • How old is she, and how sexual was the question?

    • 13 and how to perform oral sex

    • Tell her, she'll learn somehow pretty soon if you don't tell her and it's probably better someone who actually cares about her and wants her to stay safe tells her than a really horny boy that wants her to suck his dick. She'll eventually have it regardless of if you tell her or not or if you tell your mom and your mom gets mad at her.

  • Answer them like a good big sis... ;)

    • I don't understand why you have the winking emoji? You're comment is weirdly perverted, this isn't Pornhub freak.

    • @Vendela your mind went there not mine. I grew up with brothers who liked to play jokes and I am sure sisters can be that way too. Nothing in my post suggest what you were thinking. That is on you…

  • Depends on how old she is and what types of questions?

  • I think you should answer her. Curious in that age and hard to ask anyone else.

  • As long as you give her correct medical info with a dose of adult morality than I see nothing wrong with a mature older sister advising her younger sis.

  • How little?

    • She 13.

    • Just answer correctly. Or she'll never trust you again.

    • Same age when my sister asked me.

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