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My little sister is a whore? What do I do?

My sister and I never saw what a proper relationship is like. My mother and her many now ex-boyfriends acted inappropriately in front of us (making out, grinding, having sex, etc.) often while under the influence of drugs or alcohol. But, now this will be our 4th year living with our father in another household, who is quite the opposite of my mother. Yet, my mother's behavior seems to have seriously affected my younger sister now that she has turned 13 this past February, and is of age to be very hormonal. She's previously been caught having inappropriate conversations about threesomes with her friends' boyfriends WITH HER FRIENDS (and it weirded them out terribly). Now, she's just recently been caught having conversations about her cousin's cousin and his dick, about how she want to fuck this dude's brother instead, and about how she apparently had anal sex with her immediate cousin! (I know that seems confusing, but that was about three different guys who were related). I'm at a complete loss for words! My grandmother even commented about how disgusted she was, saying, "She's a fucking whore, just like her mother." What do I do? I honestly am so infuriated with her, but also at those guys for doing those things with her! All of those guys and her are too young to do that! Christ, I'm 17 and I haven't even had my first boyfriend and she goes out and does this? But, another thing to consider is that my sister is fixing to move in with my mother because she's threatened to kill us, runaway, kill herself, and throw my father in prison for false charges, so... I don't know, how would you handle this situation?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • no she is not a wh***. she just needs a better social environment bith virtually and in personal gathering and away from all this. she will get good if u sisters become besties. try it. be her friends more than her sister may be she start idolizing u. defend her. be on her side and try to see the situstion from her perspective. she will let u know why she is doing all this and may ask u for ur help being furious... is logical but not practical

  • look.. I'm sorry but you can't fix her. you can try to fix what's broken but you can't fix the broken who don't wish to be fixed. she will learn from the error of her ways when she gets older cause guys treat those kinds of girls like trash and then that's when she will learn to be good and that's when she'll meet the nice guys

Most Helpful Girls

  • Don't be angry towards her. You need to have a conversation with her in a calm manner. Perhaps she wants attention and she is trying to satisfy that need in the wrong way. Ask her how she's been feeling lately. I think the problem is of emotional nature. Something triggered her to act that way. She is a young teenager, she has no idea how to handle her emotions. You need to be more understanding and you need to listen to her.

  • Your sister needs to see a therapist. She needs a lot of help. There's not much you can do other than just try to sit down with her and tell her that her actions can make her get an std, or pregnant or guys will give her a slutty reputation- if they haven't already. It sounds like she doesn't have any strong role models and when that happens they usually go down a very bad road.

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  • i think you should sit and talk to her. Guide her in the right way and teach her what a normal 13 year old should do

  • let her live with her mother

  • As long as she is being safe then it is really none of your business.
    And to be honest, her behavior is more regular than you still not having a boyfriend by 17 years of age.

    Most people have dated and at least kissed by 13~14 years of age, come on...
    Heck we sexted with my girlfriend when we were 13, and sexual topics were a total commonplace among my friends at around that age.

    It's the age of sexual maturity, things like these are bound to happen.

  • Take her to church and perhaps she needs to see a Christian counselor as well

  • Try to get your sister a councellor. Maybe seeing a priest or so may help as well (if he is well recommended , and not some random horny dude in a robe).

    As for your mom, fuck her. She won't get you back.. All your dad needs is some obvious evidence she's stoned and on alvohol and un unfit parent and person. She isn't gonna fo shit

  • She obviously needs a psychological help. And of course she needs support from you and her other relatives. Instead of slut shaming her you need to show her how much you love her.

  • your situation is bad, but what to do nothing in your hand, let her do her life, why you think about it, you should think about it and let her enjoy her life, she is not adult but its not your responsibly, there are elders for it, you just try to talk with her but i know it won't matter to her, because she tastes sex life early and hard to be back.

    • Thanks for selection sexy!

  • Next stop, porn, threesom with mom and moms boyfriend, pregnant at 14 and others raising her kid. Her life over before it even begins!

    • Yes therapy if someone can get her there

  • even you tlk to her i dn't think that she will listen to you.

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