My local pub is keeping a secret from me about one of the staff members?

[Anonymous]

during last summer was a couple girls who worked at my local pub as hosts and servers. we got to know each other a fair bit as we were both there a lot and i'd see them when they were working.
things ended a little weird and i couldn't ever exactly figure out why or what went on with them last summer.

but now i think i've figured it out and appears staff at local pub was trying to keep something secret from me that i was apparently not suppose to know about.

it appears that near the end of last summer 2 of these girls got there nipples pierced ( a brun and a blonde ) , i was actually aware the brun had as i saw it one day , she acted weird after so i didn't bother asking anything more about it. but i was entirely unaware the blonde had too , always kind of wondered if the brun got pierced with a friend as she didn't seem like the type to do this alone but could never figure out with who

until the other day i was bored and watched a video online which featured the blonde girl , she was swimming at one point and near the end drying off and you can briefly see that she has a nipple piercing which was a surprise as i had no clue that she had one.

but if she's had it this long obviously everyone there knew about it and just kept me outside the loop as they say but i think they were intentionally not telling me she did this cause they knew that i liked her and would find it sexually attractive. i honestly don't know why it matter so much if i knew that she had her nipple pierced , its actually a fairly common piercing on young women and its not like i'd expect her to show me at work or such. i would of just though it was cool that she had one and that it enhanced her sex appeal but had no expectations she do anything

i realise if she wants to keep it low key that she has one she doesn't have to tell people , its just this pub is such a gossipy place find it hard to believe this was never mentioned once when i was around , seems like i wasn't suppose to ever find out

[ciitruskiwi]

If it was never mentioned to you then they clearly don't want everyone knowing. If I got my nipple pierced I definitely wouldn't walk around my work telling customers. That's just weird and most would probably give me a look like "why the fuck are you telling us?"

Just get over it. It's not a big deal

[Asker]

true i wouldn't expect her to show customers , thing is i wasn't really an average customer , was there a lot and talked to a lot of the people who worked there when they were bored or off work. they were pretty open about things and very social , it just seems weird that they didn't want me to know she had done this

[ciitruskiwi]

Being open and social is different than saying you have a piercing in sexualized spot. It's not weird at all that they didn't want you knowing. You're a regular customer not a close friend.

[Asker]

it just seems like they specifically didn't want me to know for some reason. but i would understand why a young women might find it uncomfortable if older men knew about such a piercing in such an environment. but at the same time having a nipple piercing isn't really that uncommon anymore and i think that i could of handled finding out she had one

[drsatan]

So what's your actual deal? Do you have a fetish for writing weird creepy stalker fiction or you're some weird AI who's trying to come off as human or what?

[Asker]

trying to explain a weird story from last summer , its not fiction as far as i know these girls really did get there nipples pierced and no one mentioned a thing to me about this happening despite the fact there all very social and talk candidly about things , the staff there are very open and social , its odd this was never mentioned once

[drsatan]

Are you the same guy who wrote a similar story about a girl at the gym a few weeks ago?

[Iron_Man]

Year that sounds very familiar

[Iron_Man]

Find out why or quit that place

[Asker]

i'm not sure why they felt that i shouldn't know , i wasn't necessary close to the blonde girl but still knew her reasonably well and i never felt that she had an issue with me or was bothered by my interest in her. not sure why the other staff there felt that it was something that i shouldn't know about , but they didn't want me to know

[Iron_Man]

I dont like that kind of trearment. The heck with that place

[Asker]

i know what your saying , i feel like i'm some sort of second class citizen who is being labeled creepy by the staff there. simply cause i enjoyed getting to know some of the younger women who worked there. not sure why it matter if i know this girl had a piercing , obviously never expect her to pull off her top and show people at work. now i worry things will be weird when it re opens , cause i worry that i'll try and check that girl out and see if i can see if it really exists or not. if she had simply been open about it last summer it wouldn't have been some weird secret

[Iron_Man]

As long as the girls are of legal age you've done nothing wrong. See what happens after they reopen. But be prepared for a back up plan in case they're all still working there

[Asker]

i had a little bit of a thing for her but it was rather harmless and i never tried to pressure her into taking things further. agree it will be interesting to see what things are like there when they re open , think a lot of the people from last year plan to come back but unsure what there plan is or when they might be able to re open , no date given yet for pubs / restaurants here and might not even be till June but if there is some sort of secret nipple piercing on this girl and i'm labeled a perv cause i check her out trying to see if she really has one or not , i agree things could get pretty toxic

[Asker]

also as she is a party girl who works in a pub i don't really believe she didn't want people to know she had one , infact i think she wanted people to know , maybe the staff at the pub felt such a piercing should be kept secret but still many girls have one now and it shouldn't of mattered if people like me knew as long as there was no expectations of her showing it at work

[Iron_Man]

How old is she?

[Asker]

the blonde and brun are both 18 but turning 19 this year , there was also a similar event there in July with another server who also apparently got her nipple pierced but didn't want me to know about it , she was 24 . apparently the girls who work there want to have pierced nipples but don't want people to know despite it being the busiest place in town is girls who work there who are 18 - 30 , most would be early to mid 20's , is no male servers , guys only work in the kitchen or as bouncers at bar nights ( doubt they'll be allowed to have any bar nights this summer due to covid 19 restrictions , likely only be restaurant part allowed to re open and at limited capacity )

[Iron_Man]

They are of legal age don't take any crap off of anyone. You can report them as well that restaurant for abuse black balling holding you back

[Asker]

i know why would it matter if i know she had a nipple piercing? surely any girl who worked as a server in a bar would be aware that people would at times notice her nipple piercing , its obviously not going to be secret for long in that type of atmosphere and most people from the bar scene wouldn't have an issue with a girl having one anyways so why try and hide it? it doesn't really make any sense? why get one when you work in a highly visible job if you don't want people to notice it

[Asker]

to explain further last summer there staff uniform was a thin light blue cotton t shirt , so there boobs would of been fairly visible most of the time i found out the 24 year old had one cause one night i was sitting at the bar and for some reason she had to reach in an odd direction for something near me. and i saw this odd object in her nipple area poking through her top. she acted really weird afterwords so i knew something was up. apparently the story was that she had got it pierced a few days earlier with her younger sister , found out she had one too cause she walked in the same pub a week later and i noticed she had a nipple barbel poking through her top , you could see it plain as day. but i never really found out much more and neither would talk to me about it , i just knew that they both got pierced nipples last summer. the whole concept of secret nipple piercings on a high profile bartender seems really weird , maybe if she was a librarian or nurse it make sense but when people see your boobs all day at work , there going to eventually notice there is jewellery in them

[Iron_Man]

Let me know how it all goes when they open up again Tag me here

[Asker]

i hope the pub is able to open up this summer , i assume it will soon but with limited capacity or perhaps only patio seating allowed. it will be very interesting to see how these girls act this summer , they'll all have had pierced nipples for close to a year by now ( if they still have them in ) so should be used to the idea of having them and more comfortable knowing that other people know they have them had felt summer 2020 would of been fairly similar to last summer until covid 19 hit , now i really have no idea , might be a bore if there is no bar nights or events to go to. it be very hard to party with these girls due to age difference if they only go to private parties and no public bar nights

[Asker]

also 3 of the 4 girls mentioned would already know that i know about the piercing so i couldn't see what the point would be in hiding it from me now? if i already know it exists and that they in fact did get pierced nipples only the 18 year old blonde doesn't know that i know as i never saw her's in person and she's never posted a picture of it to her social media , so she would still assume its secret of the 4 girls i mentioned having one only 1 has ever posted a picture of it to social media , the 18 year old brunette posted one of her in a bikini a month or so back and you could see it poking through her top. but others not 1 single pic , although never been able to view the 24 year olds instagram page as its private so i don't really know what she posts online , she's also not on vsco like the other 3 area

[Iron_Man]

You are the guy with the girl crush at the gym that has a great gift for Gab

[Asker]

yes i haven't heard from her since , her social media is pretty quiet , all she seemed to be doing was working out at home and staying at home. she doesn't appear to be seeing anyone. also have no clue when the gym might re open she was also friends with the blonde girl , i never really talked to her about her , she'd definitly know if she really had pierced nipples or not , well i assume most people in our town that age would know , popular blonde girl with big boobs obviously everyone her age knows if she got them pierced. i don't think the girl from gym has a nipple piercing but these days you never really know for sure but she doesn't really have big boobs are rarely goes out of her way to show off that area so it seem less likely , but i was surprised when she got her belly button pierced and had no clue she had a tattoo

[Asker]

the girl from the gym would likely know the answer to a lot of these questions as she knows both the blonde girl and younger sister of other girl. she must know if they all really got pierced last summer and what the story is about that. well i'm pretty sure the girls from the pub really did get pierced nipples last summer. the whole story and time line doesn't exactly make much sense though , but i don't know if i could ever get her to talk to me about it and it might annoy her if i asked such things about other girls the 18 year old blonde girl was often annoyed at me when i sat at the bar where the older girl worked , she'd give me dirty looks and was visibly upset on at least one occasion. not sure if she was jealous i was interested in her cause she had her nipple pierced or what was going on. or if she was just annoyed with my behaviour at the pub last summer. whats crazy is that by the end of the summer somehow she herself now has pierced nipples too? and i apparently had no clue until now , it just all doesn't make much sense. the video i found of her online and picture i was able to get from it , its a pretty good shot of her boobs and it does seem to be a real nipple piercing , can't see what else it could be , it looks legit from anything similar i've ever seen before