My long distance boyfriend prefers to get off watching porn instead of having phone sex with me?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I are long distance. We have great sexual and emotional chemistry and I love him to bits, and I know he reciprocates. There's just one thing that has been bothering me for a couple of months. Both him and I were really into phone sex, it gave us a sense of intimacy and closeness and hearing him got me off in no time. However in the past few weeks he just doesn't seem so interested in anything sexual anymore. He still is very kind and tender with me, but I feel like he lost interest in anything involving sex with me. When I brought it up, he said it's because of our schedule. I work in the mornings until 2-3 pm and he leaves at his job at 2 pm til 10 pm. He also mentioned he is more in the mood in the mornings and I'm not available then, so he usually watches porn and gets off that way. I was a bit hurt by it, it's not like I have anything against porn, I watch it too, but I would've never thought he would pick that over having this time with me. It wouldn't even bother me if our sexual bond wouldn't suffer because of it. What do you guys think? Should I bring this up again?

[Anonymous]

If you two were actually having intercourse sex and werent long distancr then I would say your concerns are valid and then there shouldn't be a reason he chooses porn over you but the fact that you are long distance changes things. Phone sex is not for everyone or as enjoyable for all. He likely needs something else too. I wouldn't be happy with just phone sex for example.

[PondyPand]

Meh. He may just enjoy the visual aspect more. I'd rather watch porn than do phone sex. 😂

[WayDownSW]

Losing interest and probably just a matter of time before he informs you about the other girl/girls..

[boggboss]

I don't see any interest in phone sex

[firefighter15]

Dump him

[Anonymous]

Wtf is phone sex?