My Love/Hate Relationship with Girls ask Guys (GAG)

My Love/Hate Relationship with Girls ask Guys (GAG)

If you look at my exper level right now, you will see a 1. This typically states that I am new to the site, that I am someone who doesn’t know how things work. However, that is anything but the case.

I first discovered GAG 4 years ago when I was 14. Back then, I loved to explore the different things that went on in life between people. I was a virgin (still am lol), I had never had a girlfriend (I have since then), I hadn’t even gotten my first grades in high school and discovered the brutal place that gives you 3 hours of homework a night. To me, GAG was a place to see what the world was like before I got to experience it. A world that is beautiful and caring, yet dangerous and hurtful.

During this time period, I found that many of the questions people asked were fairly straightforward. Even as a 14 year old, much of the questions have common sense answers and in many ways I still think that is the case today. The reason I say this, is because I used GAG to reassure myself and I’m sure many other people do to. Often, I could tell when a girl liked me or didn’t. Yet, I asked GAG anyway to reassure myself. I used the site to gain security in my beliefs.

My Love/Hate Relationship with Girls ask Guys (GAG)

This is where I went wrong during my first endeavor on GAG. As is the case at times, people sometimes didn’t answer my questions and this only made my worry more. I began to spin things in my head to the point that I couldn’t focus on anything else. When people did respond, it often was the answer I was expecting and over time the reassurance I was hoping for began to be replaced by a constant nagging of insecurity.

As such, one day I left GAG. I didn’t even delete my account, and I forgot about the site for a long time.

My Love/Hate Relationship with Girls ask Guys (GAG)

Two or three years passed and I while looking for better ways to kiss my girlfriend, I discovered GAG again. After thinking about things, I decided to give the site a shot again and I signed up with a new account. Almost immediately, things were different. I felt a better connection to older members. When I posted a question, I didn’t feel the need to overthink it. Things felt great and I knew I was at the right place again!

Then one fateful night, I posted a question about kissing my girlfriend and I began a long conversation with another GAGer. (If you are reading this you will know who I am so feel free to message me if you want). It was about what are the best kissing positions and how to make them feel more intimate and like sex. We talked for a solid 3 hours about this and immediately friended each other.

My Love/Hate Relationship with Girls ask Guys (GAG)

A few weeks later my year-long girlfriend broke up with me out of the blue. I continued to mess around with GAG and being single I felt free to flirt around.

This led me to messaging this wonderful girl and she flirted back. Eventually, the two of us started writing very long sexting paragraphs to each other that we could masturbate to. This was the beginning of the downfall of my second endeavor on GAG.

My Love/Hate Relationship with Girls ask Guys (GAG)

You see, for a while the two of us continued sexting. Eventually though she found a boyfriend and it ended. This fantastic person told me, “hey there will be other girls out there but be careful.”

I wasn’t careful. I met other GAGers and began sexting them too, some became more than just words. Eventually, my entire mentality on GAG became sex and I lost what I truly loved about the site. The relationships with people. The random conversations. The innocent and fun parts of this amazing site!

Sure, I still like to sext. Heck, if any girl wants to, please PM me lol.

But in general, I’m not going to go looking for it anymore because I want to be able to focus on myself, and not my genitals. So as I begin my third endeavor on GAG, I can’t wait to meet new people and make new friends. I want to help those that I can and maybe receive some help back. GAG is a beautiful site. It is something that I want to enjoy and it is something that should be treasured by all of us.

My Love/Hate Relationship with Girls ask Guys (GAG)

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