My masseuse got an erection giving me a massage :/ ?

Question

I'm 17, and I usually save up for a massage because I'm an athlete, and I'm very stressed with having an abusive dad. 

I've gone to the same guy (my dad chose him, not me). He's 23 years old, and I think he's handsome. 

I was lying on my stomach, and he was rubbing my back, butt, shoulders, and thighs. He leaned forward, and I could feel he had a hard-on... 

Not sure what to think? Should I fire him? What does this mean? please help me!

depeche2015 · Accepted Answer

Yeah that's a little weird but at the same time natural. He shouldn't be getting turned on from massaging a person who goes in to have a massage. That's like going to a gynecologist and then he gets a boner cause he's touching your vagina. It's awkward and he shouldn't be getting turned on by that. As a masseuse he should be used of massaging and touching people to which he won't be getting a boner. He must be new and not experienced. He is young and you're young too and he could find you attractive and that could be the reason. If you feel uncomfortable don't go to him anymore and find someone else to massage you. I think getting a woman masseuse would be better since you're 17.

overthinkingmind · Accepted Answer

Poor masseuse! Lol It's normal, any guy would get a hard-on... unless he was gay. He was probably trying to avoid it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think the question is: is he being professional about it? Guys do get erections :p Not always at will :p If he's professional and does his best to not bump you with it, then assume it's an accident and let it go.

If it happens regularly ("more than once" perhaps), or if you feel uncomfortable or you feel like he meant for you to feel it? Go find another masseuse. There are lots and lots out there; hopefully your father won't be too much of a problem.

Good luck with your father, by the way.

Virulent · Accepted Answer

"He leaned forward, and I could feel he had a hard-on..."

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"I've gone to the same guy"

Details, as always, too bad this is a week old. No one asked "How long have you seen him?" or "Is this a normal position he's in" particularly because the position sounds non-professional (didn't indicate contact point, sounds fishy) and didn't indicate familiarity (which would actually be extremely important in dictating the actual nature of the behavior) but late is late.

Opportunity missed.

Aizou · Answer

A guy touching a girl all over has an erection? How dare he!

VeryBiFun · Answer

It seems you make him sexually aroused.

As for what to do, do you like his massages? If you do and he is not doing anything to you that you don't want, keep seeing him. More than likely every male masseuse is going to get a hard-on rubbing you down.

If you are interested in him, you could give him a hand with his hard-on, offering up a massage to him.

sugarvenomx · Answer

Fire him and report him to his boss. Also report your dad to the authorities. Also stick to a female or gay masseuse.

VanillaSalt · Answer

ignore it... hard to not get a boner touching a beautiful girl... ide be more worried if he didn't have it... if he was on the table and u were giving the massage hed still have a boner so dont worry about it...

Klaatu51 · Answer

well he's a... guy, so it's obvious he'd have an erection

Dargil · Answer

*A Masseuse is female. Touch, proximity and pheromones (yours) in the air make a boner pretty likely. He did nothing wrong.

Miah02 · Answer

If you bothered by it go to someone else

Sexualchrist · Answer

If I was massaging a hot athletic girl like that, I would get an erection too. Fire him. If I don't get to massage hot girls every day, neither should he.

kangy · Answer

Look for a lady masseuse

tyber1 · Answer

It's not something he's doing on purpose, he isn't harassing you or being creepy. I think you should just let it slide.

Tokana · Answer

I'd be more worried about your abusive dad. I can't believe everyone let that slide and focused on a poor dude getting a boner.

dudeman · Answer

Seventeen year old athlete twenty three year old dude with a boner. Not seeing whats weird here.

Skadouchebag · Answer

It's purely a reflex. He got a boner, but that doesn't mean he intended to use it. In all likeiyhood, he was praying to God that you wouldn't feel it.

Ihav2fart · Answer

As a man I'm going to have to say please cut him some slack... We can't control our little brother! Sometimes he controls us...

gapminder · Answer

You should plow him... (_*_)

Despinay · Answer

It means he is going to want to do more. Is he professional. If so he shouldn't have hard on. DM me and I can put you on to some Japanese vids of men getting away with it.