My mom doesn't accept im having sex?

i am turning 20 this may and my mom wants to think i am virgin and she doesn't want me to make wrong decisions. she is not strict and she knows i hang out with more than 1 guys, i flirt with them, once she said to me they will be gone so i can bring a guy our home. however she doesn't think i have sex with them probably she still sees me as a little girl. is it normal? i would want she knew about my sexual life and thought it is normal to have sex for my age.
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Superb Opinion

  • You need to sit down and have a grown up discussion with your mum.

    just be open and honest with her about guys, sex everything.

    she will have had similar problems at your age.

    you need to talk to her and let her see you are not a little girl.

    it also sets some house rules, such as no noisy sex, cleaning up, guys respect house and your mother etc.

    even now I crash at my mums and take a girl back.

    nothing wrong with it

Most Helpful Guy

  • Your mom wants the best for you so she was hoping you'd get into what she considers an ideal situation. You want to have fun and focus on the short term. It's not unusual. Just don't end up like the 30+ year old women on GAG whining about how no men their age and older want to take them seriously.

Most Helpful Girl

  • at age 20 it truly is none of her business, most girls are doing this at 14 15 16

    • its her house its her rules, she's an adult she should go live on her own and stop harassing her mother. if she want to live sluttly life she should do it on her own without involving her family.

    • i had done it at 16. also i think 20 is even late for the first time lol. it is weird behavior of her i think

    • @hasdrubal164 judgmental and 16th century much

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  • Some parents don't want their children to grow up because it means they will no longer be needed in the same way that kids need their parents.

  • As long as YOU exercise 'common sense' regarding pregnancy and STD's why is it ANY of her business...
    as the infamous Mae West used to coo..." Why don cha come up and see me sometime?"
    "Innocence" is HIGHLY overt-rated--- Youth & beauty are PERISHABLE commodities ;)

  • She probably knows but does not want to admit it. Have an honest talk with her... tell her that you have had sex and that you are careful each time. Don't forget No condoms means no sex!

  • Your mom is probably well aware that you’re having sex but that doesn’t mean she wants to talk or think about it. You’re her kid no matter how old you are or how mature you feel.. Respect how she feels and she will respect your privacy too

  • Your sex life is none of her business, but she probably thinks it is since you live under the same roof. So maybe its time for you to move out?

  • Then you should move out...

  • You are considered an adult now and have every right to live your life the way you want.

  • I wonder how old you are exactly. What are your cultural norms. Do you care about them and such things.

  • Its none of here business imfao

  • If u want her to know then tell her although she probably doesn’t want to know about it

  • Is this your first serious relationship?

  • my mom walked in on me so she def knows

  • I wonder how old she was when having you

  • well then you sohuld listen to ur mom

    • i am an adult?

    • then you should go live on ur own and stop making ur mom stressed