My mom found my used condom?

Question

I'm 19 but my mom expected me to abstain from sex until marriage. Both of my sisters got pregnant and still struggle so she was angry when she found it. Any advice to get her to understand that it's not the end of the world.

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

Give her the night so sort of cool off. You can have a serious discussion tomorrow where you guys both sit down to talk it over. Assure her that, despite you having sex before marriage, you made sure to be responsible about it and use protection. Say you always make a point to be safe, and so she doesn't have to worry that you'll get pregnant too young.

&Just to lighten things up a bit, it could be worse. My boyfriend's parents have not only found used condoms he left laying around more than once, but just last weekend they found the vibrating cock-ring he had for some reason left in his pocket when we were done. I can only imagine how they think of me now... -_-

Creole_Flavor · Accepted Answer

You should explain that even though she wants you to abstain from sex that you are an adult and that you choose to have sex so you are doing it responsibly so that you won't get pregnant and that should count for something. She should not be disappointed about that and in the meantime please properly dispose used condoms..

Arianna16 · Accepted Answer

tell her that u are an adult and at least u used a condom, tell her that u are not pregnant and are very careful

summiter · Accepted Answer

Good for you for using a condom. Your mom should keep that in mind. You are an adult and can choose to have sex with whoever you want. Keep using birth control, you mom will have to get over it and should be proud that you do not want an std or get pregnant. How often do you have sex with this guy? Do you need more then one condom due to more then 1 round per night? Have a supply on hand and keep using them. Enjoy the great orgasms you should be getting! What do you think?

Klaatu51 · Accepted Answer

clean your room better next time. :-P anyway i guess she should stop being angry since you did the right thing. you had PROTECTED sex ;-)

Stacyzee · Answer

Her fears are very valid. The best reassurance you can give her, is not in words but by making sone thing out of yourself (instead of getting pregnant when you're not ready )