My mom is being too controlling?

So I'm 20 and live with my parents.
My mother has always had a problem with me wearing shorts, tank tops and revealing clothes, which there was no way to deal with, since I was underage.
But now, I'm 20, and I argue frequently with my mother, I literally feel like I'm losing my mind, I cannot stand her views.
I wanted to wear a shirt that's a little shorter than usual (it's not a tank top, literally 1cm of the belly is only visible) and she wouldn't let me wear it, saying I would look like a prostitute, etc. She literally hides the clothes she doesn't like me to wear.
I am at the edge of going to the therapist, I cannot stand her and what she tells me anymore.
I'm sick to my stomach just writing this, I want to just move out but I can't.
What should I do?
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  • If you live with your parents, you have to follow their rules... yes, I know it's painful, I've been there.

    If you don't ant to follow your parents' rules, then you have to move out.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Follow her rules if she's not charging you rent. Change after you go out

    • Easy to say. I cannot since my parents are paying for my college. But thinking about 4 more years living with this emotional abuse, really got me thinking

    • I'm sure your mom means well. Can you store some clothes you prefer to wear at college and elsewhere?

    • Asker that's not emotional abuse... I hate to think how you'd fare with my parents if not being able to wear a crop top is emotional abuse to you

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Perfect time to take responsibility of your own life.

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  • get your own place

  • Find a rich hot boyfriend and move out

  • Own place would be best option, a keyed lock to your room if you have to stay at your parents.

  • My mom's the same way. So are my friends' moms. I hate moms who think they can control their kids, just because they live under their roof.

    Time to pack your bags and run away from home.

  • Move out

  • Consider this: who gives a fuck about your stupid short shirt? Is that really more important than your mother’s wisdom? Fuck yo shirt, get a life!

    • "Wisdom" ? 😭😭 deciding about your childs adult life is not being "wise" . This is why you will never have healthy relationship with your kids. Because you find these kinds of things to be okay

    • Aight you know legit nothin about me and ur saying I’ll never have a healthy relationship with my kids. Maybe I won’t allow my daughter to be a dumb slut like you and she’ll be thankful when she’s older?

    • SLUT for wearing a literal TANK TOP? You old men are creepy af. The fact you view young girls in that way says something🤮🤮 can't wait y'all old fuckers finally die

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  • My guess is that she is trying to keep her son away from all those stupid bunny breeding bitches

  • Asking if you can pay her Rent… then she can’t hold that over your head

  • she is surely a boring mother.