My mom keeps barging into my room?

Ok so sometimes at random, if my mom needs something or wants to ask me a question or whatever she always just barges into my room. I always have my door locked but she gets something to unlock it even though I keep asking her not to. This is particularly a problem for me because a lot of the times I'll be *sorry for TMI* masturbating and she just suddenly enters my room, which as you can imagine is unbelievably embarrassing. I always have to cover up and act like I'm not doing anything but I can't tell if she knows or not. She never used to do this to my older siblings I'm 16 by the way. So, what can I do? Thanks.
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  • Oh man, this really sucks. Some people will say that she's your parent, you're living under her house she can whatever she wants that isn't illegal... but come one, you're her kid! She WANT to respect your privacy. I would say talk to your mom about this, ask her if she could please do to courtesy of knocking before she enters the room. Hopefully that will help but I know how unreasonable parents can be sometimes, so there's a good chance she won't think there's anything wrong with barging into your room. If that's the case, then I guess the only thing you can do is lock your door when you masturbate or do something private. Then you'd at least get a few seconds warning when before your mom storms in because you'd hear her unlocking the door.

    • She should* want to respect your privacy

    • Lol I can't believe I didn't think of adding this, but you can also do what some other people are saying like just find a way to block the door when you don't want anyone coming in!

  • Go to Home Depot or Lowe's and buy a rubber "door wedge" that you can firmly wedge under the door. It will make it very difficult for her to open the door. That may not stop her, but it will give you some extra time to react whenever she barges in. Buy several so that you'll always have one in place even if she takes them one at a time. With any luck eventually she'll get a clue.

  • I just put up a "please knock" sign cuz that was a big problem for me too. It's in a lot of peoples mindset not to respect private space because they never had any private space when they were younger. But ya maybe talk to her again and put up a sign or something like that.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Since you lock the door and shet gets something to unlock it, she is aware and purposely violating your privacy. Block the door somehow. Someone mentioned a door wedge, which works great, but in an emergency, especially with the lights out, it would be hard to find to get out in a hurry. A chair in front of the door with the back of it under the knob works great.

    Or but a new door lock set that needs a key, and install it when she is out of the house.

  • She is obviously a prude who doesn't want you masturbating.

    You may have to do what many guys do. Masturbate at night when you're in bed. Masturbate in the shower or bath. Or, and this is risky, masturbate with the door open but quietly and with your ears on full alert. When your mother is approaching your room, stop and look natural, but she'll think because your door is open that you were not doing anything suspicious.

    • Lol yea that is risky😬 Thanks for the advice.

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  • Just tell her to please knock and respect your privacy. I have actually had my parents just open the door to my room while I was changing my clothes, and it really made me mad because I felt like they should at least knock out of respect for my privacy. I know that if I just walked into their room that they would be very upset with me.
    Just tell her that you'd like to know when she is coming in, so a knock would be greatly appreciated. For all she knows, you could be changing your clothes.

  • Umm... uh, wow. Ok at first i thought my mom barges into my room all the time but they never unlock the doors. I say go to the bathroom no one will ever bother you when you're there

  • If you've already talked to her about invading your privacy and not knocking first and she still disrespects your wishes, you may need to take drastic measures.
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  • Look on the bright side... it's not your dad 👀😂😂

  • Why don't you just stop masturbating during the day and wait until night when you are going to bed?

  • Stick a chair in front of your door so she gets the message that you don't like her barging in.

  • If you can, put the top part of a chair underneath the door handle. She won't be able to get in.

  • Wow, rude. I'd try to talk to her about it.

  • Try moving your dresser in front of the door?

  • She should be knocking first. However, since you're under her roof it's really up to her whether or not she wants to give you privacy.

  • Talk to her and say that you would prefer your privacy. If she then doesn't give you that, don't masturbate when she is at home. Simple as that.

  • Shock the shit out of her with the capacitor from a disposable camera...

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-oOmDDG6o-k
  • Get a better lock. I know how embarrassing it is my sister walked in on me i was masturbating she told her friends about.

    • Did you punch her in the tits bro? 👊

    • @CheerGirl38139 yeah lol

    • There you go! 🙋

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  • I know how you feel her and my sister are like the only people who never knock. Thats why my door is always locked

  • Slide a butterknife between the door and the frame.

  • There's nothing you can do until you get your own place

  • Same they are always expecting me to be up to something but I'm just sitting there studying
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    • 😂😂😂😂

  • Ok i had this same situation as a teen and really the bathroom is the only place that no one is going to barge in and interrupt you

  • Kill the rude bint

  • Try asking her not to.

    • Lol yea that's the first thing I did but she won't listen.

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