My mom keeps barging into my room?

Ok so sometimes at random, if my mom needs something or wants to ask me a question or whatever she always just barges into my room. I always have my door locked but she gets something to unlock it even though I keep asking her not to. This is particularly a problem for me because a lot of the times I'll be *sorry for TMI* masturbating and she just suddenly enters my room, which as you can imagine is unbelievably embarrassing. I always have to cover up and act like I'm not doing anything but I can't tell if she knows or not. She never used to do this to my older siblings I'm 16 by the way. So, what can I do? Thanks.
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  • Just straight up say hey I need some alone time please.
    Also because you barge in unexpected I might be masturbating and you don't really want to see your daughter diddling all spread out , so I would at least appreciate a courtesy knock before you decide to help yourself to my room.

    Something like that , don't be embarrassed about it. have the balls to just straight up tell her.

    • 😂yea I definitely don't have the balls to do that, we're a Christian family but her even more so, she'd kill me if I said anything like that.

    • Hmm... I do suggest that you have a mother daughter talk about your privacy though. You're a teenager and would like some privacy sometimes

  • she has to understand your privacy, if she not doing so, let do it and dont hide yourself, once she see it she would get the answer, be cool, masturbation is pretty normal.

  • Well surely if you lock it and she has to spend time to unlock it then you've got time to cover up?

    • Well I mean kinda. I usually have the tv on in order to not arouse suspicion like I'm just sitting alone in silence so, I don't usually hear her until she's like entering the room plus she unlocks the door really fast like it only takes a few seconds for her to unlock it and get in.

    • Well then surely it's better just to do it under the covers anyway so not much hiding? Or in the bathroom

  • well, you can start of by havng a serious talk about privacy and if your mom is often barging into your room, it can mean that she is suspicious of you doing drugs or some shit

  • Lolz girl she knows you masturbate. She is your mother. Your 16 you just have to let her do that. It is her house. You can move out when your 18 if you want. It sounds like she is doing that because she knows you masturbate and she does not want to let you get addicted to it. Or she just wants you to stop it.
    I suggest asking her to knock first maybe compromise with her.

    • you can move out at any age you want lmao, 😉

    • @DeltoidFan You would need to know the local laws where the OP lives, first. The age varies by country, and in the US, by state. And you don't have to be emancipated to have the right to move out without parental consent. But it almost certainly is not "at any age" she wants.

    • Yea I mean I hate that she does this but I'm in no position to move out. I'm only 16 and I know me, I wouldn't last on my own at this point in my life😂

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  • Since it's her house, what can you do?

  • Umm, masturbate when she's not around or is sleeping?