My mom used to grab my genitals ( Root of balls & penis) while spanking me till my age 14-15, was it normal?

Most of the time she used to do the same thing while spanking me, even if i didn't try to run off still she would grab it and than only she would spank me, however i live in joint family with my uncle-aunt, so my aunt saw this but she took it as a normal, do you think it was a normal thing?
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  • Within Western culture, that would be viewed as extremely abnormal behavior and it would be considered sexual abuse. I cannot speak for the culture in Thailand.

  • Dude... no. Not at all. Since you're old enough, you can actually sue her for sexual offenses and ill treatment of children (yourself).

    • she not treating me like this since i have grown up but she used to do this which was strange.

    • Well that's because you're old enough to stand by yourself. But, dude, that was completely not a normal thing to do. Spanking is one thing but holding you by those places... wrong on all accounts.

    • yes, i feel the same but she was freak and very furious, i mean she can not control her anger but still her behavior hurt me a lot.

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  • No, that's disgusting. That is sexual abuse. She deserves to go to jail and get her ass handed to her while her genital is inappropriately grabbed.

    • i used to feel very discomfort but she before spanking me she used to grab them very clearly without listening me.

    • I'm am sorry to inform you but your mother basically made a habit out of groping and humiliating you. You should talk to a professional about this emotional trauma :( and don't let her do the same thing to your siblings!

    • you saying correct some one who is elder should intervene into the matter and should stop her, when she started doing this to me i was like a kid 11-12 years old, so i got scared and thought my mom was much angry with me but later every time she started getting me nude and grabbing my penis and balls before scolding me, if i ever tried to protest than she used to grab them more harshly and for some months she didn't allow me to wear any underwear at home.

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  • Dude!!! I honestly don't think thats normal!! Eww.. maybe she just didn't realize that she was groping you!

    • No, she did thi since i was 11-12 years old, and i used to run away to avoid her anger or spankings, but later she started grabbing my genitals every time before scolding or spanking me.

    • Maybe, She did it so you couldn't run away from her while she was scolding you.. I still think its kinda weird.

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  • So abnormal that your question is likely fake. Very unlikely that someone who experienced this would actually ask "do you think it was a normal thing?"

  • You already know the answer to this :/

  • No, that's child abuse and molestation.

    • she was my mom so i never took it as a molestation but every time i used to think why she touch and grab me like this ! even 1-2 times she clearly grabbed and hold my penis while spanking me.

    • @antonanton You should seek help my mom would spank me but when try to run then she would grab my penis and hold it tight or just get a ruler and spank my penis.

  • Extremely perverse and abnormal. If you have underage siblings at home, you should report your mother for sexual abuse of a minor.

    • i have but i don't want to report her because she is my mom.

    • I understand that she is your mom, but do you want her to do the same thing to your siblings. . . or maybe something even more fucked up? She might be thinking "Well, I got away with grabbing little Johnny's tallywhacker so I'm gonna make little Benny lick my slit," or something else equally fucked up.

    • No, i don't want.

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  • Does she have large hands?