My mum caught me giving my boyfriend a blowjob, how will I gain her respect?

Hey people to get the the point I last night was hanging out with my boyfriend who I've been with around 3 months we are sexually active, however last night I was giving my boyfriend head when my mum walked in on us! I feel so embarrassed! That my mum saw me in this way... I tried to talk to her about it afterwards but she was like "how will I look at you in the same way again!" I'm shocked because she isn't religious or anything and I did explain that he isn't just anyone... how can I get my mum to forget what she saw... it's so embarrassing that my mum will be seeing that image everytime I see her...

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  • Was she knowing that you have a boyfriend and you are with him at that moment? If she was knowing - she must have knocked the door before entering in your room. And why do not you locked room from inside? It is a mistake from both the side. You are in the age group of 18 to 24 - means in adult group and you must be having strong sexual desires and now all modern moms know that. She also must be enjoying all this things and imaging that what follows after what she has seen. Tell her the truth, how long you are in relationship and planning to marry or not now? In this case she will give you some advice after some time - may be days, and ask you to use protective systems, because she must be willing that you do not give birth to Jesus - (Virgin mother?). She will accept your relationship but not getting you pregnant before marriage.

  • I think time will heal this. My mom caught me twice, once giving him a blowjob and another riding him. It's been some time since then and she is okay about seeing me now and isn't with that image anymore, although I get comments randomly and subtily from her about it but it's not nearly as bad as before. I'm sure she's understanding enough. And plus, it's not like it's something unnatural. If I may point out, she also has done it probably so yeah unless she's someone really unreasonable I thin she will get over it :)

    • Thank you very much its nice to hear someone who has been through it and came out the other side. I'm glad to here it's getting better for you now :)

    • Thank you and you're welcome I'm here to help. Too bad we're both annonymous. If you wanted you could pm me if you wanted more advice :)

    • Sure but I Daren't post my name!

  • Its just something that's hard to unsee I can't even imaging my parents doing that I would want to scrape my eyeballs out think of it in that way, and I'd never too at them the same way again. Yes she's aware that you are having sex but seeing you doing something sexual is disturbing for a mother.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Give it time and don't try to push it. Just let her deal with it on her own. It will be not only being seeing the act, but also realizing that you're not a little girl anymore, you're an adult. Parents sometimes have trouble with this. You'll always be "her little girl" in her mind likely. So... she's never going to forget it and what's done is done. What she has to do is come to terms with that you're an adult now and this will just take time. Hopefully she can do this and it happens. It will make your relationship all the better with her when it does, if it does lol. But you can't force it or change her mind, she has to do it on her own.

  • Just apologise and tell her that it'll never happen again. Tell her that you weren't thinking straight and that it was wrong for you to do it when in the same house. Then ask her to forgive you. Even if you don't feel bad about what happened, try to seem Ernest and sincerely ask her to forgive you. If she really loves you, then she'll forget about it.

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  • If she is Truly Family, Mum Will... Forgive, Then Forget.
    The Family that Stays Together, Should Pray Together. xx

  • Honestly by not bringing it up. It's more awkward than anything but she'll get over it.

  • At least it wasn't random guy, it was your boyfriend, so your mom doesn't have a reason to judge you.

    by the way I bet she did the same to your dad :'D

  • ... Lowkey chances are she has done the same before.

    I'd say just own what you were doing and just act "normal" XD if anything your mom might just make an embarassing comment relating to sex. And just tease you two.

    I wouldn't think she would get annoyed so long as you and your boyfriend are continuing to do safe sex.

  • She's a judgmental whore jeez, like she hasn't done anything with your dad

    • Please dont refer to my mum as a whore please

  • Your mother cannot forget what she saw but both of you can move forward. You should not bring the boyfriend around her for a few weeks and, whenever you mention him, say something that should make your mother gain some respect for him (like reciting examples of nice things he has done for you.)

  • You can't.
    Just wait and try to be as much mature as you can about it.

  • How old are you?

    Lol jk

    It's the parents job to fuck with there kids. I got to fuck with my brother and his booty call chick. Back when he was 24. It was hilarious.

  • At least he wasn't cumming in your mouth when she walked in.

    • That would have been embarrassing! Has that happened to you?

    • Lol Happened to me once

    • My mom saw me Cumming in my Gfs mouth

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  • She probably just means that it's not something she wanted to see you doing. I guarantee she's sucked dick as well. But you probably wouldn't look at her the same way if you saw it. I don't think its about losing respect

  • Did he cum in your mouth while your Mom watched? I'm sure she was sucked many dicks herself. You shouldn't worry too much. It;s just what girls do.

  • It may be hard but over time, she will get over it, just give her a few days and do the talk to her.

  • She will always respect you because you are her daughter

  • shit happens.. don't forget to lock the door next time

  • how old are you? your age is really going to play a big roll in how your parents handle you being sexually active

  • lool!.. don't a banana in front of me!..

    its not your problem!..
    in fact she should be guiding you from her experience,

    • lol!!! How did you ever make GURU? xx

    • @Paris13 first i will auto-correct myself "Lool!.. dont't ever eat a banana in front of her" WoW!.. my mind is so dirty, i wanted to say this sentence and , i ended up writing a mess. As for you question!.. How do i end up GURU, you can find that out if you follow me , or stalk me. but on serious note i enjoy trolling and having fun , i follow a lot of topics and i answer lot of questions, the thing is, i see a question, i answer it , first 5 seconds i use to find decent answer and if i cannot find a good answer from my knowledge, then either its compliment or a troll. which turns a good conversation, giving me points and sometime, people love the trolling and my compliments in "HOW DO I LOOK" to girls usually wins me MHO.. also, i target so many questions , including un-interesting one, where the asker has like 5 opinions to choose from, for MHO. Also, i have learned a way. that sometimes people don't want serious answer!.. sometimes philosophical answers, i will give you and !..

    • @Paris13 For example A month ago!.. a girl asked a question in how do i look1. "What color are my eyes? and What eye color do men like on women?" my answer did not had a single color, and i won MHO my answer was : Your eyes have a naughty color, and the color i like in a women eyes is which says, "Hey, i like you, hey i want you to be mine, hey i promise i won't play with your heart or games with your mind." or something like that and i won MHO. without even mentioning a color!..

  • Three months isn't very long. Your mum probably thinks your boyfriend is taking advantage of you. Realistically, do you see yourself marrying him, or spending the rest of your life with him. Nowadays the vast majority will go through a large number of people

  • That will be hard but you don't know what things she did in her life.

  • She just screwing with you. She’s been on her knees giving her man head before too. She is just giving you a little trouble for it. BTW: 3 months isn’t a long enough relationship to say “he isn’t just anyone.” You really ought to give it about a year.

  • I think your mum is overreacting. I mean you were just using a vacuum cleaner to clean your boyfriend right. It'll pass don't worry, if anyone should feel awkward it's your mum then your boyfriend

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