Guys, My neighbor grosses me out but somehow I get so wet around him and even while writing this! What do I do?

I also have a serious boyfriend who I LOVE and would absolutely not cheat on, ever. For some reason, though, I haven’t been sexually drawn to him these days. My neighbor, on the other hand turns me on so much just being near him! My boyfriend and neighbor are both way older than me and the neighbor definitely flirts. I’ve also dreamt about him lately. Should I keep ignoring this and hope it goes away? Tell my boyfriend what I’ve been feeling? Tell my neighbor? Help!! Ik it’s bad pls don’t judge I don't know what’s happening!!
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I think maybe it’s my neighbors powerful and almost intimidating energy that gets to me. It’s really sexy. Maybe I could secretly use that feeing as stimulation for spicing things up with my boyfriend!!
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  • You are excited by him because he is confident and powerful and dominant. Even if he's crude and part of you is grossed out, you've discovered that another "part" of you is flowing like a waterfall. This isn't unusual - most women are attracted to confident, powerful, dominant men, to the point that even if they're BAD men, many women are still attracted to them anyway, because of those other characteristics.

    Obviously, this is bad for your current relationship, and I DON'T recommend messing with the neighbor. What I DO recommend is that you tell your boyfriend that you are really turned on by the idea of HIM being dominant and you being submissive and having him take control. If necessary, go through YouTube and find videos that help men understand what this means and how to go about it and have him watch them.
    I think you likely DO love your boyfriend, but you have a NEED to be dominated and to be made to be the submissive one, and if your boyfriend can do that, then I bet your pussy will start being wet for him again, rather than your neighbor.

    • Omg that’s genius thank you so much for your advice!

    • Happy to help. Good luck!

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  • Sounds like you got a thing forolder and intimidating men that are secure and confident in themselves. Older men are usually more confident cause they've seen a lot of shit and are just not phased by much.

    You should avoid the neighbor and telling your boyfriend is your own risk but just know that he's gonna take it negatively. Like imagine if he's telling you that he gets turned on by your female coworker. How would you feel

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  • Stay away from the neighbor. I you can't stop thinking about it then end it with the boyfriend first. This is probably just infatuation and will quickly go away.

  • There are a lot of details to discuss!
    Hmu so we can talk about it where others can't see!

  • Screwing the neighbors only makes sense in bad porn.

    Tell your boyfriend you want him to rail you over the hood of his truck (he needs one if he doesn't have one). That should fix it.

  • Your choice! Your neighbor really want to pleasure you thou!

  • Some people do that to us, the former neighbor girl was age 28 at the time and she turned me on and she was rough with me, one time she ran her elbow up and down my penis, it felt good and I still thinking of getting a handjob or blowjob from her, she was cute in her way she always had a thing for me, she had a man but didn't care.

  • Maybe talk to your boyfriend and they can both fuck you at the same time.

  • Monogamy is not natural for us as humans.

    Sit your boyfriend down and read "SEX AT DAWN" by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan. I wish someone would've told me this when I was younger myself. Monogamy is one of the biggest SCAMS ever perpetrated upon humanity (the other being the Sky-Daddy religions)

  • Find a dildo, get off, then meditate on what you were thinking of when you were masturbating and go from there.

  • Wow girl thats odd

  • Telling your boyfriend may put him in doubts, while talking to neighbor on this matter encourage him to move ahead. Under the present situation, try to have sex with boyfriend early and frequently. Otherwise you will be in neighbor's arm (and bed) very soon.

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